The art of persuasion in 59 Seconds.

VMX · 2014-02-22T11:27:21+00:00

"Just the tip".

Spore2012 · 2014-02-22T12:09:43+00:00

In a practical application of this in action, I can tell a bit about my FR from the other day.

She was telling me that I couldn't have sex with her all the while making out with me in the car. I told her I didn't want to drive and I wanted to crash at her place with no sex and that was cool. She told me to sleep on the futon and just watch a movie. I agreed. When we got inside however, she was still all over me and of course things moved along.

It's along the same lines as plausible deniablity.

Xenc · 2014-02-22T11:27:42+00:00

So I'll just offer to put a quarter of my penis in a girl, then I'll follow up with her later.

lechino3000 · 2014-02-22T13:37:07+00:00

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lFunkYl · 2014-02-22T13:57:37+00:00

Interesting. Can someone please give me some Reddit silver?

alphafuzard · 2014-02-22T12:21:11+00:00

Alternatively, you can start outrageously big, and then scale down to just slight big. Your new offer will seem more reasonable.

another_onetwo · 2014-02-22T11:48:57+00:00

It's also the theory of the small yeses. Get a small yes first and escalate to bigger ones later.

DudeWithAHighKD · 2014-02-22T12:29:27+00:00

I feel like this could work with asking out girls also. Instead of a full out date, just ask to get coffee or something.

BoyMuzz · 2014-02-22T13:17:20+00:00

So convince her to make out with you and then ask for sex?

corn86 · 2014-02-22T13:11:04+00:00

I believe this case was presented in Cialdini's book. His book was a life changer for me.

BehindEnemyLines · 2014-02-22T15:21:31+00:00

government in a nutshell

InternetFree · 2014-02-22T14:06:20+00:00

This happens all the time in politics, too.

In fact, the whole corporate agenda is successful because people never learn.
They compromise and compromise and compromise... thereby handing more and more power to the greedy and corrupt.

People are idiots.

And yes, this trick works with almost everything.

Also, look up the concept of the Overton Window. It's similar.

xZaggin · 2014-02-22T16:21:56+00:00

I just got this exact experiment at school as a text, it's weird to see it as a video 2 days later

AncientMarinade · 2014-02-22T19:39:14+00:00

Start small, before moving big

Checks subreddit

Snorts through nose

2014-02-22T19:43:37+00:00

Wow, I ended up watching the rest of the guy's videos lol

2014-02-22T19:48:47+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhVEw8HIn1I&list=LLD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g&feature=c4-overview goodexplanation here also

humpaa · 2014-02-22T21:08:16+00:00

It's more like the art of persuasion to persuade you to buy his shitty book in 59 seconds

jimmymcnulty24 · 2014-02-22T23:02:23+00:00

That's why I always introduce her to my friend first.

DozeShenaniganz · 2014-02-23T01:30:06+00:00

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JimMoriarty · 2014-02-23T04:24:34+00:00

AudioCasanova · 2014-02-23T18:45:42+00:00

I've never watched these before but, these vids are pretty sick! This one would make for a good cold reading. The left brain or right brain test. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gDNsePOQVzU

ithinkway2much · 2014-02-22T18:41:56+00:00

OOohhhhhhh and that's why whipping out your dick and asking a girl, "so...wanna f*ck?" doesn't work. You gotta her ease her into it. Got it!

So is "game" simply about persuasion? I guess what makes it hard for my simple male mind to understand is how for us, we don't don't need much persuasion to have sex. But for women it's like a complex science that only a few of us can master. Or am I objectifying again?

smellybaconreader · 2014-02-22T13:13:59+00:00

First time I've ever seen something in this sub backed by science.

ChrisLopar · 2014-02-23T02:18:58+00:00

For anyone who cares this example used in the video is in the books "Influence" and "Switch"

Title	The art of persuasion in 59 Seconds.
Author	zenmagnets
Upvotes	497
Comments	63
Date	February 22, 2014 9:54 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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