The long and short of it is this. In the past few months, I've gone out with 3 women who I liked and felt chemistry with. One I picked up at a bar, another was a friend of a friend, and the third I met online.

I got physical with all three of these women on the first date (only had sex with one), but then, after the first or second date, they all stopped responding to me. I thought we had good chemistry and was excited to see them agian, but for some reason, these women keep vanishing.

I don't think I'm doing anything glaringly wrong (I lead, take them to bars near my apartment, escalate physically over the course of the evening, listen, tell stories, don't obsessively call or text, etc) but obviously, if this has happened three times, I must be doing something wrong.

If you have any insight on how I can fix this, I would be wildly appreciative. Also if you need any additional information, please let me know.

Thanks guys!