How to turn cuddling into getting laid?

Kor_Inner · 2014-08-27T17:06:23+00:00

No offense but this story sounds like a pre-teen/teenager attempting to get laid, because adults would typically get into bed when it's already happening.

ImJustSo · 2014-08-28T02:35:18+00:00

Protip: Shut her down before she shuts you down. It worked on you, right? You wanted to bang her? Turn the tables man, trust me.

Examples: "Look, we gotta stop, I can't have sex with you tonight."

Stop, then start.

"I need a drink, want something?"

Stop, then start.

"Ok ok! Fuck, you're driving me nuts! We gotta stop!"

Stop, then start.

"Oh fuck it, I need you."

Escalate to sex.

She'll be going nuts by then. Women HATE being told no. And most men do not tell women no. It drives them nutty.

etcomro · 2014-08-27T16:18:59+00:00

but when i tried to make my move to turn it into sex

What was your 'move'?

BravoPUA · 2014-08-27T17:24:12+00:00

Make your intentions clear earlier.

Don't allow it to be a cuddle night- in her head, then try to change it.

omarm1984 · 2014-08-27T23:48:48+00:00

How old are u?

Ziggaroll · 2014-08-27T20:40:58+00:00

Hit her with the boner poke. Works every time. Especially in the morning if you're spooning and want to fuck. Literally just poke her in the asscheek with your boner so she knows what's about to happen.

Then flip her over, start kissing her, boob grabs, ect. Once you initiate it will come naturally.

iwbafam1 · 2014-08-28T01:35:33+00:00

These comment's make me laugh. She pretty much said "k but we aren't having sex". On other posts you guys suggest saying "it's alright, whatever you're comfortable with" followed by giving advice that usually that will make her drop her guard and her panties. Don't be saying one thing then something else later. It's lame.

2014-08-28T08:40:23+00:00

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Mirpo · 2014-08-27T21:01:52+00:00

Build up some sexual tension before that (deducing you are a teen)

a_nus · 2014-08-27T22:11:31+00:00

Give her a massage. Move on to more intimate parts: neck, chest/belly, etc. It should flow naturally from there.

Haptic_Affinity · 2014-08-28T17:00:23+00:00

with an unapologetic boner pushing up against her when you're laying together, with the optional sexual talk about how she turns you on.

....Notice how it's nearly the same strategy you used? The only difference is the attitude. If she calls you out on being sexual, you agree. Stop pussyfooting around what you want.

highhopes01 · 2014-08-28T02:04:32+00:00

Es-ca-late.

Title	How to turn cuddling into getting laid?
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Upvotes	12
Comments	32
Date	August 27, 2014 4:17 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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