Some background: I (23) have been dating a total alpha (32) for about 3 months. He introduced me to red pill/blue pill around the time and I swallowed immediately, then proceeded to read everything I could find online, which ultimately brought me to the red pill subreddits. I've been very feminine around him; I've baked him a dozen different things and made dinner one on occasion (I live with my parents, otherwise I would have made him many more dinners).

Here's the situation- We get along SO well. But the past few weeks have felt different. He just doesn't act like he cares about me at all, it's difficult to explain. For instance, he will (frequently) bring up other girls and reference him sleeping with other women, or just drawing attention to the power dynamic in our relationship, like reminding me he's the "man" or whatever for no real reason.

More background (sorry...): he kind of ditched me twice this past week. Both times were because of work so I understand, but he really didn't act sorry at all. So instead of coming to a basketball game with my friend and I last night he said to meet up with him after the game at a bar with some of his friends.

We arrive and within 5 minutes he mentions that there was a girl at the bar that he briefly dated a few years ago. He had told me about her before, so I knew who he was talking about. He then got out his phone and texted her and she came over. To say she was obnoxious is the understatement of the year- loud, crass, so rude, etc... (the reason he couldn't keep seeing her). She started talking to them about her $100,000 engagement ring and new boob job-- very loudly. I literally could not believe it. It just felt like such a slap in the face. Meanwhile, one of his female friends was giving us the evil eye all night. It was not a good situation haha.

I was pissed and didn't know what to do- So my friend and I got up and left without saying anything. I've never done anything like that before but it felt like the right thing to do. He called and asked where I was, I told him we left and he was really shocked. He stayed out and kept drinking and called me a dozen times and we kept having the same conversation: We share similar views of the world but the way you were acting was not "alpha" at all and was really disrespectful.

Was this the right thing to do? I am 100% ready to walk away and stop seeing him. It's emotionally draining and he has not been making me happy. I told him that this morning and he convinced me to come see him, obviously we made up. But now I'm not sure what to do next. I'm not feeling any love from him at all, and he knows how much I love him. He has the upper hand 100 times over and is being a dick just because he can.

TL;DR: Have been dating an alpha for around 3 months, he has been pretty rude for the past few weeks and I can't tell if it's actually alpha behavior or if he's just being an asshole.