Can People REALLY Change?

mamapop · 2015-02-23T19:30:11+00:00

Saying "this is how I am, this is how i've always been. I can't change" Is just an excuse for not trying. Everyone changes every day and its something that you can force, rather, help yourself do

simplyaguyonline · 2015-02-23T18:38:03+00:00

Survey says?

ZRunskop · 2015-02-23T20:55:15+00:00

I suppose it depends on how fundamental a change you are talking about. If you are looking to change your behavior, change your circumstances, namely who you surround yourself with. Rollo Tomassi talks about this when he says one of the easiest life changing actions is to exercise. it changes the way people look at and act toward you, creating a positive feedback loop. it also changes your mental state through testosterone, serotonin and endorphin release. yes we can.

lofiharvest · 2015-02-23T21:44:44+00:00

The other problem is since change is not an instant process, we sometimes feel like we haven't improved much at all when we self evaluate. Honestly some days I still feel like the same timid person I used to be. But then people I haven't seen in years will comment about how much more confident I seem since the last time they saw me. Surrounding yourself with people that will encourage the new you is also helpful.

hefnetefne · 2015-02-24T06:15:20+00:00

They can, but no one can make them. They have to do it on their own.

Transexual_Panda · 2015-02-24T06:16:41+00:00

I've asked myself this many times. The conclusion I came to is no: people don't change, only their motives do.

2015-02-23T18:03:11+00:00

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Sedditor829 · 2015-02-23T20:40:25+00:00

I think the real question is how do you NOT change? I mean to me the real problem is I'm impatient and I want to be better at something NOW. But the idea that I can't emotionally and mentally evolve throughout my life is absurd.

KER86 · 2015-02-23T18:49:09+00:00

God, this forum is awful. Why am I here?

Title	Can People REALLY Change?
Author	Antonio_Stark
Upvotes	13
Comments	13
Date	February 23, 2015 4:08 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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