Direct sexual openers

cmiovino · 2015-07-02T13:37:14+00:00

I find that yes, being direct shows confidence and is very alpha. However, opening saying "You're hot" or "You're sexy" can put you in the sleezeball sector fairly quickly. I find that saying things like "You seem interesting" or "I just felt there's something about you" are direct, show sexual interest, but are not as 'normal' as hot/sexy wording.

I also try to get physical, even if very small, quickly. Hand shake and hold that hand a few extra seconds while looking at or talking to her. I used to not do this, then look for opportunities to get physical... which either never came, or I felt it was too odd from shame and whatnot.

Being physical with the hands opens the door fairly quickly.

RickyRockyDude · 2015-07-02T08:41:21+00:00

In my experience, this works very well, IF you're sincere in saying it.

So far I've opened three girls by saying "you're hot". One of these times I was insincere, and the girl looked at me like I was some mutant creep. The other two I was being completely sincere, and got awesome results / responses.

What I like to do is spot a hot girl and then begin meditating on the tingling feeling I get in my stomach / dick. I then walk over with as much focus as possible on my own hornines, before I blurt out whatever is on my mind. If the girl is hot that is usually something along the lines of "you are hot".

Edit: btw, all of these were during daygame midday

recyclablebantha · 2015-07-02T13:24:36+00:00

One thing I've been experimenting with are direct sexual openers, ie just going up and saying Hi and then basically within the first minute, you know what you're beautiful, what are you up to right now? With piercing eye contact and a slight smirk.

I know that the odds of this working to get sex are vanishingly small, but for me the purpose is more to grow the balls of steel required to own your sexuality and become proud to be a man who wants sex.

While it's good for you to push yourself..... realize that you are pushing at the wrong time for most women, if you do this so quickly. You need balls, sure. But that's later when you go on a date or whatever, and the situation calls for escalation.

You want to really practice in a "live fire" situation, then open a girl, interact with her long enough to figure out if she's actually attractive to you, then if that's mutual, exchange contact information and hang out with her. Then escalate with her at that time.

A physical version of this could be a kiss open, going for the kiss within the first few seconds. Has anyone tried any of these techniques and how has your experience with them been?

Actually, these techniques would be okay in a club, during night game. Being that pushy so quickly is more acceptable, though still not a "rule". You still have to calibrate for the person who's in front of you.

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-02T14:52:42+00:00

It works. You just blow out a lot trying to get to the right woman. Se if you can google the 4 screening questions for same day sex.

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-07-02T16:13:21+00:00

I've tried it, this is pretty much how I game.

I know that the odds of this working to get sex are vanishingly small

After you do it a few times, and you can look comfortable doing it, and assuming you have common sense and you only do it in the right situations with the right girls... The odds are going to be pretty comparable to other types of opening. You might be skeptical about trying something new and thus think 'I lost a potential'.. but really, they weren't potentials in the first place.

hellokitty623 · 2015-07-02T18:33:56+00:00

I like to open direct. The best one I've used is, "you look absolutely breathtaking and I had to meet you"

thabakersman · 2015-07-02T13:58:29+00:00

If found recently just being open with how their presence makes you feel is a great opener since women can relate to feelings better than men. The other day I could tell my roommates coworker liked me from the jump (stroking her hair, glaring at me when I wasn't looking, her gaze deeply into my eye contact). After I confirmed all my assumptions I straight up mentioned during conversation "when is your birthday? March?" (Since I've been studying zodiacs and trying to tell ones sign from meeting them). Sure enough she said yeah how did you know? To which I replied "I knew there was a reason I was attracted to you! Plus you're very beautiful. You give off the vibe of an Aeries and I've had many friend and relationships but you have something different than the rest." Pretty much the rest if the night I encouraged her to talk about herself since I was curious to know her more.

I got the half hug and her number at the end of the night so I know where this is going!

Title	Direct sexual openers
Author	PUA_101
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Date	July 2, 2015 4:24 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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