Faithful girlfriend with a free pass to fuck whomever I please.

absolv · 2014-04-10T20:09:17+00:00

It hurts me to to see her like this

There is your answer. Part of being a man is having integrity. You obviously care for her and have empathy. Stop being selfish and either cut her loose and have your fun or stop causing her pain.

iKill_eu · 2014-04-10T19:24:44+00:00

Be very careful about this. She sounds good, but a LOT of women will use partner's previous infidelities to justify cheating when they get fed up with it.

Aerobus · 2014-04-10T23:10:28+00:00

You need to ask yourself whether you want monogamy or not. After reading this, it seems to me that the only reason you're screwing other women is because you want to do that to demonstrate power in the relationship. Demonstrate and assert your power in the relationship in other manners if you want to commit to your GF only.

On the flip side, if you don't want monogamy, then cut her loose. It's not fair to her have this kind of emotional pain. You can manipulate her feelings and emotions to you through dread game and cause her to still be madly in love with you without screwing other girls.

gt35r · 2014-04-10T20:03:34+00:00

I always find it funny when guys tell RP how faithful their girlfriend is when the topic of open relationships comes up. You realize that she is probably just setting up the OK for her to do the same exact thing? Who knows, she might have already done it already and feels guilty so she lets you dabble in the cake as well.

[deleted] · 2014-04-10T20:52:40+00:00

It sounds like you're damaging a seemingly loyal girl, so that when I run into her after you're done, I'm going to have problems training her mind.

I'd appreciate it if you would teach her how to be a good girl for the next guy she spends time with.

I'm writing this because you're young, and probability is that you'll break up eventually. She'll either turn into a cunt after you break her multiple times, or will be broken and think all guys are like that.

So it's your call on how you treat the relationship, but it's setting a precedent for her future relationships, and future soldiers who will have to sort out her fucked up head from the stuff you're pulling.

Is what you're doing selfish? Sure, but it's your call. But I, as another dude, don't appreciate it because it's spoiling the market. Much like how the weak beta dudes are creating entitled cunts, you're creating the opposite.

Just my take on it, best of luck.

pheonixignition · 2014-04-10T21:03:55+00:00

I know someone who became a slut for this reason. She fucked basically whomever.

alphabetmod · 2014-04-11T03:26:05+00:00

Sounds like you found a decent girl and are fucking other girls because you think you need to for some fucked up reason even though your girlfriend makes you happy. You've answered your own question. You're worrying about what you're missing out on even though from what you wrote it seems like you got just what a lot of guys want right in front of you.

Sure it might not work out, but are you really losing anything if it doesn't? Here you are saying she's a good lay and that you care about her.. what are you really doing besides hurting both of you by fucking other girls?

aaron_the_just · 2014-04-11T18:42:43+00:00

I'm in a similar situation and it works well.

It is up to her to manage her own feelings. Any girl could go find a guy who wouldn't cheat on her. She just isn't attracted to those guys. Every plate I am spinning has a few orbiters who would be 100% faithful.

Zanford · 2014-04-12T02:21:42+00:00

I have been through this several times. I can tell you from experience the best thing to do is:

Keep the other girls. Set up threeways. Talk about them to your main girl in a way which is dismissive but keeps her on your toes (they are hot and freaks in bed but you have zero emotional connection). Girls care about emotional infidelity more than sexual polygyny. Always be open. They hate it if they catch you lying, not b/c they have principles, but b/c it shows weakness and lack of frame control.

Treat her hysterics like shit tests. She will make her peace once she is convinced this is how it is. She will be happier and love you more than if you never had these girls b/c preselection is so powerful.

Have degrading sex with the other girls (bdsm, swallowing, anal, spanking etc.) and tell your gf. She'll love it. Do these things to her as well. Male domimance and preselection are the best aphrodisiacs for chicks. Tell her when you are not around to masturbate to thoughts of a MFF threeway with you. Keep her mind busy with other stuff.

Let her get the idea that if she does anything with other dudes you will just leave. You won't even be mad. This should be true.

Things will be great once she sees your frame is unshakeable. It's really not that diff from general RP advice about frame and shit tests, just writ larger.

Nothing you are doing is immoral. Humans are evolved for polygyny, just like gorillas. Be a silverback.

Good luck.

HelloNeo · 2014-04-10T19:46:42+00:00

You won't mind then when I pick up your girl then? Be a fucking man. Either leave her or stop cheating.

machimus · 2014-04-10T19:24:39+00:00

So do you care about hurting her? If so, then man up and change the relationship or end it. If not, proceed. She's clearly not okay with this situation.

Title	Faithful girlfriend with a free pass to fuck whomever I please.
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Date	April 10, 2014 7:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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