Great quote I remember when feeling insecure

GJLuke · 2015-12-10T21:25:55+00:00

Love it. Awesome post.

I stutter everyonce in awhile.

Lately I've just been accepting it. And recently someone commented, "You know your stutter is actually kind of cool. When you stutter, it makes me really pay attention on what you are saying. It grabs the energy of the room and get's people focus. Your stutter works for you".

Something like that. He was being serious and actually admired my stutter and that it gave me a charm

After that compliment, I've been a lot less insecure about my stutter (still have some insecurities about it though..)

It's nice to have a "human touch". Where you completely accept yourself and are real to others. It's very attractive because it makes people feel that they can be real with you aswell. And attractive because you are not trying to impress them, but have the core confidence to just be your true self with no fucks given.

People, girls especially, can really sense that you are just being real. VERY VERY attractive

Meanwhile, for other guys, she'll be thinking "Why is this guy trying so hard to impress me".

Homosapienman · 2015-12-11T03:55:43+00:00

"Confidence is quiet. Insecurities are loud."

kelticslob · 2015-12-10T22:00:20+00:00

There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in the proportion

Francis Bacon

Thebiglurker · 2015-12-11T06:27:11+00:00

I like the initial sentiment about being true to yourself, but I have some caution around the Barbie thing. I think we should be careful to be quick to judge. Everyone has their own story, everyone is interesting and has depth to their character. Even the 10/10 Barbie. You just have to get to know them and gain trust in order to see it.

secretmonkeyassassin · 2015-12-11T07:51:29+00:00

The quote I remember: "Everybody is somebody's fetish"

Its_Wild_Bill · 2015-12-10T21:56:33+00:00

This video describing Wabi Sabi expands on this and this video is a great summation of Basho's life and haikus. Its a beautiful Japanese concept that really puts things into perspective.

BruteRave · 2015-12-11T03:25:25+00:00

But what I dont get is that if the difference between best friends and dating is the physical attraction then why would I go for a mediocre-looking girl? Not trying to challenge you just dont understand

Turlast · 2015-12-10T20:25:32+00:00

Good quote.

ImJustSo · 2015-12-11T06:20:45+00:00

I'd just like to add on to this that for some reason women get wet when you tell them every possible fuckin reason it wouldn't work out. You paint it in a way that all of your negative qualities make you not possible to be with and they'll try to tell you every reason they want to be with you. I don't get it!

Wolfy858 · 2015-12-11T07:03:42+00:00

"I don't care if you're just looking for sex" - why not?

Euphoriam5 · 2015-12-11T09:51:45+00:00

This is great, embrace the wilderness!

Mathieulombardi · 2015-12-11T11:04:33+00:00

I think this mode of thinking is quite immature.

flubbingCunt · 2015-12-11T13:40:59+00:00

I'm really dumb. Difficult to accept and impossible to hide

TheVoice10 · 2015-12-11T20:39:03+00:00

Robert Glover, the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, once said that Nice Guys are like "teflon men" because nothing can stick to teflon but rather slides off of it. Instead, he advises us to show our rough edges because that actually gives people something to connect to.

Cynical_Doggie · 2015-12-11T10:20:30+00:00

I disagree.

The only true way to rid yourself of insecurities is get rid of things that make you feel insecure.

That is, work out, be interesting (do things), do well at work, and make that money.

The women will follow most definitely.

Don't conform and affirm that you are fine where you are, when you have the potential to become so much more.

The difference, at the end of the day is who got back up one more time after being knocked down.

FuturePOTUS · 2015-12-11T02:13:02+00:00

I have been coming to this realization myself in the last week or so and reading this really set it into stone for me. Thanks for the post brotha

Title	Great quote I remember when feeling insecure
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Date	December 10, 2015 7:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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