I'm sure quite a few guys can relate to this.

Do you find that about 90% of the women you meet and attract are the types that love to go out into town for a few drinks, go dancing and get a little wild?

And do you find that for yourself, that just doesn't appeal? And you can come off as boring to them?

Thats my problem. Busy pubs/clubs, nightlife, dancing in a dark room to generic music, I've done all of that when I was younger, and with a tonne of alcohol I can enjoy it. But now I am a little older I dont like feeling like I need to get shitfaced to enjoy a night out. And I normally have stuff to do the next day, I cant spend it laying in bed nursing a hangover.

I'm an active, sporty guy. My ideal Saturday would be waking up fresh to some good food, doing something active and getting a sweat on, whether that be a group exercise thing like kickboxing, BJJ, yoga or just a circuits class, or going for a run or the gym by myself, and then relaxing into the evening with more good food and something laid back.

However most of the girls I seem to come into contact with seem to find a decent Saturday is waking up hungover and spending the day mustering up enough energy to do the same thing that night.

So inevitably within 2-3 dates woman seem to get bored with me. I constantly end up with the nagging questions of why we aren't going out into town to go dancing or to the latest hot club. This seems to be a problem I am running head first into again and again.