Hey seddit, time for a little FR so I can look back in a few months and see the progress as well as share some lessons I learned.

3 weeks ago, I had my first instadate where I could seal the deal (realization with hindsight) but I didn't take action fast enough and lacked experience that I had during this (3rd) instadate I'm about to tell you about.

So on Thursday, I finished work and was gonna see my fuckbuddy this evening. She texted me that she likes me too much now to just be fwb and wants something more so I had to finish our little story as I wanted to keep it fun only with her. So I went out and opened a few sets which didn't work out well. Then I spotted a cute girl and crossed over to be on the same side of the street. I stopped her from behind (oh no!!!) and opened fairly direct. I started having a conversation while we were walking. Basically saying what's the deal with my opener and then exchanging some bits of information about each other. Then after walking together for like a minute, I stopped her and kept talking. I couldn't stop her where I approached cos it was too crowded with people walking but I wanted to make sure we stop and talk. I've noticed that if I don't do that and she goes in some weird directions and I didn't built enough comfort yet and follow her, it can make her feel uncomfortable.

So we were staying together in the middle of a street and having a normal conversation. Turns out, she's a tourist and came on her own to visit my city. A few more minutes of talking and I suggested to go for a walk together. So most of our interaction was a normal conversation (while sticking to the pua principles of having a conversation with women) spiced up by some light negs, push pull etc. But all very light. She was introverted and English wasn't her first language so I was doing most of the talking. She was giving me literally no IOI other than staying with me for a long time and following me. She didn't mention about coming back a single time but I know my past self would think she's not interested cos she wasn't receptive to my kino escalation. We were just hanging out, I didn't take her to a bar cos of the type of girl she was so we were having a walk around the port. It was getting late and she wouldn't say anything about coming back etc. So we were sitting on a bench and I would teach her a few words in my native language.

I would show her something that was around us like tree, boat etc. and teach her how to say it in my language. Then, I would say the word peck and she would try to pronounce it and asked me what is means, so I said I'll show you and kissed her on the cheek. A few more random words and then the word kiss and I would go for a proper kiss but she wouldn't make out. I was cool with that, ignored it and kept our conversation. Then I said let's go somewhere else and took her in direction of her hotel (my place was on our way hehe). So we were walking past the building where I live and said this is my place, let's watch a movie (we were talking about horror movies on our way back). She did this with a light smile. Ok no problem, back to a normal conversation. She said no but she was still there waiting, she wouldn't move in the direction of her place. Let's have a glass of wine at my place! Nope. Back to normal conversation. Another attempt and she agrees, I suggested movie, wine or both and said I'll walk her back to her hotel.

So we're at mine place, having wine, talking and then was the first time when she would make out but it still was very reserved. I gave her a back massage while sitting behind her and dropped a few kisses on her neck and back. Then we spiced things up and had sex.

I met her the next evening, we went to a few bars and came back to mine, today is the third and last evening we're gonna spend together as she's flying back to her country.

She texted me today after she left my place if I can spend with her more time cos 2 days is not enough (imagine you texted that to a girl lol).

This FR report might read shit, but if I had this on infield video, it could be titled "How to fuck a girl that shows no interest the same day you met her". I learned so much about being persistent, grounded and not taking neutral as lack of interest as well as realizing that IOI are often not that obvious.

It's cool to finally have a same day pull. A took dozens of numbers from daygame and they all flaked. I had 2 instadates but I couldn't seal the deal and we never saw each other again (tourist/flaking afterwards). I knew pulling from the streets is doable but I wanted to do it myself so I know I can replicate it again and again as I was sick of taking the number to never see the girl again.