Is being funny a feminine thing?

BurntYams · 2016-12-08T03:40:03+00:00

If you're not funny, you're boring, and who likes boring people? Chicks love a dude that can make them laugh, and not just chicks, people in general. Being confident and funny is the key to social success. Always be funny. And you can be nice yes, but don't be a pussy. Women want men, not boys with emotions. Stand up for yourself and take what you want. Stay humble, but stay hungry.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-12-08T03:43:02+00:00

being funny is potrayed as a feminine thing

Absolutely not.

Think about all the comedians you know. How many of those are female?

romdiggity · 2016-12-08T05:19:15+00:00

Girls like a guy who can make them laugh. It's not the same as being a funny guy. I know it sounds weird, but they aren't quite the same thing. If you can get a girl to laugh at what you say easily, she probably likes you, in my experience.

kalolilo · 2016-12-08T08:40:17+00:00

Be feminine! I'm often very cute and I giggle, then the next moment I grab the girl and tell her I Like her. It's a verh powerful thing, being able to mix some feminine with alpha behaviours. Makes the girl drop their defenses and open up to you really fast.

revente · 2016-12-08T06:29:12+00:00

Not at all. In fact, while the humans evolved a social function for laughter- to bond over humor, other mammals up to our cousins-chimps, use "smile" to signal submission. And i trust that deeply even as us humans if you make the group laugh its a sing of dominance.

Also be more sexual in your humour. Like as sexual as you can get sexual.

Also work on your eye contact and body language when shooting jokes. And never laugh at your own jokes before others start to laugh- it looks as you are unsecure if the joke will work.

Freestyled_It · 2016-12-08T06:37:39+00:00

The thing that determines it is whether it is coming from a natural place or is it forced. If you're trying hard to be funny it's painfully obvious. Same with being unnecessarily polite. If you have a natural humor about you and you're well mannered, everyone will appreciate it not just girls. It's only feminine if you're actively trying to be funny and forcing the situation because then you're moulding yourself to her - a form of submission. Don't be funny or express an emotion for the sake of it, let it just flow out. Goes for any interaction with any person, not just girls.

DaygameCoach · 2016-12-08T07:36:40+00:00

No, it's very common in men...since it works well on women. :)

You can be funny and serious as the situation requires but I bet you define serious differently than I do.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-12-08T15:52:58+00:00

You can be only seductive and get girls. You can not be only funny and get girls.

Title	Is being funny a feminine thing?
Author	I_Main_TwistedFate
Upvotes	7
Comments	14
Date	December 8, 2016 3:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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