How exactly can you maneuver dating in the workplace?

CrudProgrammer · 2024-03-05T02:46:29+00:00

Be able to move onto a new employer when things go south, and pick jobs where the staff tend to screw eachother.

Aggravating_Farm_125 · 2024-03-05T03:40:50+00:00

I learned the hard way by trying it. I love my job but found out we’re all getting laid off so I shot my shot at a woman who I found out liked me. We talked for a week and I tried to get a date going but she started to flake on me. When I finally met her in person at work she was trying to avoid me. She was fake asf. Now I try to avoid seeing her. I used to love going into work but now I try to avoid her.

Never again. I’m never messing with women in the work place again. Luckily this is the last week we all work together

puma085 · 2024-03-05T07:17:35+00:00

Very discreetly. The non dating policy at your workplace seems to be mostly a American thing though. Back home in Austria the work place is common place to meet your significant other. I am in the states now fo work related further education and even we short term workers were told it is not advisable to date within the work place. No enforced rule just a "strict" advice lol. Not going to say anything against it. When in the United States do as the Americans do. It is still funny though. A normal adult spends most of his time at work. Not considering the work place a potential place to meet a mate is a big limiting factor. Especially if you are already older.

But yeah if the work enviroment is against it you have to really careful when doing it. It depends on the people involved as well.

If both people are mature enough to handle the situation it might work. If not then it might end very bad.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-05T02:53:25+00:00

Very discreetly.

IamWisdom · 2024-03-05T02:51:01+00:00

It's desperate to do that. Don't don't do it. Unless she's throwing herself at you and she's not crazy don't even bother. You shouldn't need to do that to get dates.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-05T02:39:35+00:00

Carefully

ruddywaters · 2024-03-05T03:12:42+00:00

Just keep your shit to yourself....simple as that.

tunnelblick · 2024-03-05T09:57:01+00:00

I would not recommend it. Where I live it’s common to have personal connections. However, it did not work out when I tried it once and then it bothers you to see the colleague who rejected you all the time. So in hindsight I should not have done it.

rockdude625 · 2024-03-05T06:35:35+00:00

Don’t

SWIM270 · 2024-03-05T07:32:29+00:00

When you say “a lot of people”, how many is that?

Title	How exactly can you maneuver dating in the workplace?
Author	Amazondriver23
Upvotes	6
Comments	10
Date	March 5, 2024 2:36 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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