How do you approach women in clubs?

eyewave · 2024-03-02T23:25:44+00:00

Pff usually I go show my dance moves and see if they smile. Still pretty experimental approach but I need to try something at least 🤦🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-03T02:41:12+00:00

Club approaching is different than most other situations.

Single women are there for dick. Many taken women are there for the same. You don't need to use your words, they are muffled anyway without u screaming. All you have to do is arouse and seduce which can be done 100% non verbally. You can have entire conversations with just your eyes and body language. Scan for eye contact, see if anyone was also looking for your eyes; if some girl gives you that 1000 mile gaze with a smile u best walk over and dance with her, then just let your bodies do the talking. Walk up at a lower medium pace and extend your hands to put them on her waist and as you close in she will make it very clear if she is letting you or not. Once comfortable with each other you can move to get her to a quieter area and ask if she's sleeping over. That simple.

president_at_gmails · 2024-03-02T23:39:17+00:00

Sorry OP, but the dance floor is just real life Tinder. All us men can do is circle women (usually 5-10 men circling two girls) and hope that they like our looks. When the women ignore you, it means rejection. When they keep accidentally bumping and grinding into you, it means they choose you. It's really like the bees and their queens when you think about it.

yourcousinrafa · 2024-03-03T04:12:21+00:00

Nightclubs are not the best places to approach especially when you're in a group of guys and the girls are in a group too. Add in large doses of alcohol, cock blockers, overprotective girlfriends and you have a recipe for rejection. That's not to say that you can't pick up in nightclubs. You can, but you can't do it while in a group, you can't hover etc.

Best approach is to actually have fun! Who knew. GO on the dance floor and dance alone. Girls will notice you in minutes. Hopefully you're not robot dancing and you actually can move to rythm in a non white-boy way you're golden. Do that for 10 minutes, ignore everyone including the girls and see how things change. All you need to do is extend your hand to the girl you like and invite her to join you. In my experience she will, if she doesn't , who cares keep dancing because another chick noticed how fun and out of your head you are.

The secret is to have FUN in whatever you do.

Cheers

Eagerforfreedom · 2024-03-03T05:03:35+00:00

Look for the eyes, the eyes never lie. The one that connects eyes with you, you will feel it, we are human intuitive, ask to buy her a drink.

Ok_Comparison6216 · 2024-03-03T20:14:29+00:00

Working as a bouncer, I can give you my first hand experience. Usually when the girl you like is with her friends make eye contact with her friends and watch them dance if they see you looking hype them up. The point is to not be creepy while being around them. After that they usually will start trying to hype you up too( if they think you're cute) and eventually dance with you. From there ask if you can dance with the friend that you like. I've seen this work and have even done this myself. This little technique hasn't failed me yet.

_ALUCARD_- · 2024-03-03T02:12:24+00:00

Brother, it's simple and simple, if he is dancing, never set your goal first, win over those next to him, dance with his friends, make them believe that they are dance experts.Generate that trust so then you can go with the girl without problems I have a method that I use in these cases if you want to know send me a message I am always available to answer questions

Classic_Writer8573 · 2024-03-03T15:15:47+00:00

When I was single, I preferred places I could talk. You can dance with them or start up conversation outside. You can also meet them at nearby late night restaurants after the clubs close.

Slow-Resolution-3748 · 2024-03-05T17:06:36+00:00

Stand against the wall until closing time and grab the only other lonely woman.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-03T00:17:34+00:00

You sit down on a couch, put your hands on the back, put your feet up on a table. Act like you own the place. The girls will come to you.

JamesDeensaan · 2024-03-03T20:33:46+00:00

I just get behind a girl that is shakin her ahh then she starts grinding on me and thats pretty much it. its that ez.. im also 6’4

DomH970 · 2024-03-03T02:01:24+00:00

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2024-03-03T02:49:27+00:00

As others have mentioned, your best weapon in the club is your physical appearance. Now, if you’re not born looking like a model, then up your grooming habits and wardrobe.

Men are super disposable in the club so women will usually hook up with either the hottest or most energetic guys there. But the latter still won’t work if you’re not physically sound. That’s just the truth.

TejasSaxena · 2024-03-03T09:31:26+00:00

Subcoms, mindset and vibe play a strong role in such environments because you’re limited through verbal communication. You need to compensate that with strong subcoms i.e. you just tapping her shoulder, having strong eye contact,smirk and then giving hand of god.

Title	How do you approach women in clubs?
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Date	March 2, 2024 11:02 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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