What went well

We hugged when we first met

We held hands walking back to her car

What didn’t go well

I was way too nervous it effected the vibe negatively

I thought the conversation was fine but boring overall

I didn’t escalate kino until the end of the date

I didn’t try to kiss her which ultimately led to a text message that said I felt no romantic spark between us.

Overall I think I did okay for one I escalated past a hug which I usually never do on date one. This date also proved girls don’t give a shit if you live at home as long you have a good reason . She even said it’s cool that I live at home to save money. So it’s no longer an excuse not to try to date.

The reason I failed this time is because I let the nice guy behavior to hid the badness win. I hid the fact I thought she was hot, I wanted to touch her and I wanted to be intimate her. Hence she felt no sexual tension thus any sexual tension that might have been there fizzled.