Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?

ownzord · 2023-09-13T15:49:49+00:00

Yes.

Wing_Inevitable · 2023-09-13T16:07:42+00:00

There is no such thing as a “League “

They might be hot , but you are awesome and that is worth way more .

But to answer the question : YES

Or better get them to ask you out .

bigflagellum · 2023-09-13T17:38:30+00:00

Personally I try and only ask out people out of my league, why would I date someone I’m not excited about.

AllDaysOff · 2023-09-13T16:30:50+00:00

Offer yourself to any woman you like. Let them decide if they want to fuck you or not.

Illusion911 · 2023-09-13T16:57:16+00:00

If you don't ask, you get a no

If you do ask, you will still get a no, but you might get a yes, and you don't have to regret it afterwards. I'd say it's worth it just to get you to move on to the next one

EXandRR · 2023-09-13T18:12:20+00:00

Leagues are a myth. Its 80% self confidence, 20% dont be creepy.

NewCommonSensei · 2023-09-13T17:39:26+00:00

If I didn’t ask out girls out of my league i would never ask any girls out

Big-Science-7759 · 2023-09-13T16:57:13+00:00

Stop putting women on pedestals...there is no league

EnoughWinter5966 · 2023-09-13T16:49:14+00:00

Yes, there’s no reason not to.

waverunnr · 2023-09-13T20:59:26+00:00

Punching above your weight class is half the fun.

Hortos · 2023-09-13T17:21:12+00:00

Yes. People wildly underestimate their appearance.

comacove · 2023-09-13T18:02:03+00:00

You have nothing to lose by asking.

RedPander89 · 2023-09-13T19:51:30+00:00

You write a self defeating post to respond with self defeating comments to anyone that wants to help. What's the point of this post exactly?

The_dumb_engineer · 2023-09-13T15:27:20+00:00

Yup, she was walking her dog and i said “whats the princess’s name”. She responded with “its a boy and his name is max” I replied with “nah i was talking about you”

Later that night we were under the sheets

LaughingStockTheBoat · 2023-09-13T18:14:51+00:00

DaygameCode · 2023-09-13T16:56:51+00:00

Yes i have done it many times, sometimes rejection, sometimes success.

No different than when i ask someone in my league.

Sendmeloveletters · 2023-09-13T17:24:54+00:00

Always

MyUsername0_0 · 2023-09-13T19:25:34+00:00

What's the worst thing that will happen? They say no? They yell at you? You will live.

Evol_Etah · 2023-09-13T20:53:22+00:00

Two things.

You miss 100% of the chances you don't take.
You need to once win once.

3boodqt · 2023-09-14T01:09:31+00:00

Never thought any girl is out of my league, I just don’t go talk to most of them cause of my failed experiences of getting the girl and never getting laid because somehow I make her lose interest because of my personality, so now I’ve developed social anxiety because of my social awkwardness which is annoying. So now I’m nervous to go talk to them not because they’re hot but because I have the thought of “I’ll just go and embarrass myself” in the back of my mind.

I remember I actually did score with a girl who’s a 10 once. But didn’t sleep with her unfortunately cause I keep doing the same mistake of weirding the girl out or making her lose interest by being too nice these are two of my major problems..

niktrop0000 · 2023-09-14T12:16:19+00:00

The mindset you want is: everyone is in my league. You make mistakes? Good, you’re gonna learn how to talk and act with super hot girls.

Lovemelikeareptile1 · 2023-09-14T14:30:58+00:00

I believe in the 2 point limit. If you are a 5, the highway you can realistically go for is 7 and that's if you have other things going for you - super fun, funny, dresses well, muscular, has money, etc.

Title	Being realistic: do you think someone should be asking out a girl/guy that’s obviously very out of their league?
Author	invisible_at_night
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Comments	72
Date	September 13, 2023 3:16 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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