Chance to get a threesome, tips?

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-03-29T00:34:24+00:00

Shut your mouth and let it happen, the only one that can screw this up at this point is you. Good luck!

zfgee · 2018-03-29T00:29:13+00:00

Lol, it's a done deal unless you screw it up. Just tee up a night where the three of you have drinks at your house or one of theirs.

mronson · 2018-03-29T01:02:23+00:00

Don't build it up too much. Go out, have some drinks, click, be physical with your girl, and calibrate/escalate carefully and respectfully. Let your girl facilitate or her friend participate on her own.

Twobithatter · 2018-03-29T00:36:57+00:00

Let your gf take control for the most part but don’t forget to make it seem like this is for their pleasure.

ForsakenBank · 2018-03-29T10:35:30+00:00

Don’t finish in the other girl..

recyclablebanthas · 2018-03-29T04:19:06+00:00

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So I have had sex with a girl for the past 2 months and she said she would want a threesome some time with a good friend of hers.

The thing to keep in mind is whether you want it with those particular two people or not.

As for them? The important thing is to not let desperation or neediness creep into your approach.

It sounds like your FWB is amped up about it enough to do the sales pitch for you. Let her. It sounds like all you'll have to do is just bring the plane in for a landing after they sort it out and flag you in to land.

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She showed me screenshots of her talking to her friend about me and my pictures, the other girl seemed pretty excited.

Play dumb, like you don't know any of that. Hang out, try to find whatever playfulness is inside of you or them. Have fun with it.

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My fwb just started a groupchat today with only us three.

Yeah, she's really handling it for her. And honestly, it's going to be easier for the girl to do this.

This is why it's great to not burn bridges with someone you've gotten involved with. Someone you've slept with and had a good time with, without drama, is going to be some of the best PR you could ever get. When a girl you've been with is happy enough about it to talk you up, it is going to blow past a lot of barriers for you.

Not just threesomes, but future girls you hook-up with one-on-one or date. Referrals can lead to any of those.

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One thing to look out for is the idea that you really need to be doing anything in particular to "make" it happen. Often with threesomes, it's a collaboration. Like a Ouija board. Do what you can to help faciiliate good conditions for things to happen, but we're talking about three people all making their own decisions here. Which adds additional possibilities for things to go off the rails.

But when it happens, it's going to seem to just snap together, often out of nowhere.

Let go of expectations, I'd say.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-03-29T06:30:06+00:00

Birth control, make sure they're both on it.

TruthSFree · 2018-03-29T13:55:34+00:00

Make it about your girls. Continue to be chill and awesome. Find a book on Threesomes, buy it and read it, Good Luck!

ImJustSo · 2018-03-29T17:11:00+00:00

Your job is basically to be the penis in the room, that's pretty much it. Women together are like fluffers for each other in the porn industry. They're going to rile each other up.

The most difficult part of a threesome is two girls liking each other. You've already got that done, so just keep your mouth shut. Also, check your expectations at the door, they'll fuck shit up.

themanbat · 2018-03-29T07:59:02+00:00

Your job will be to direct. Lots of girls have lesbian fantasies. Few act on them because they want the other to initiate. For example, when you've got them alone lead one right up to the other and say, "kiss." Also buy a double dong.

unclequavo · 2018-03-29T12:57:47+00:00

Make sure your girl establishes boundaries between everyone. I say her so that she can decide how far to take things without you making a suggestion which could backfire. Only problem I’ve had with protection during threesomes is that you’ll be swapping condoms before going on the other girl (unless theyre cool without it). This obviously can be repetitive and easy erection killer if you’re bad at it.

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-29T08:09:18+00:00

Don't talk incessantly, but be playful and confident. Let the women be in their feminine. Let them do their thing, don't be the douchebag frat boy who has to control the entire evening pre-sex (controlling in the bedroom is okay).

I like to watch the two women take each other's clothes off and go at it while I sit back with a camera and join in eventually.

A good way to get started is to bust out your phone, say you want some fun modeling pics. Have them pose, touch each other's hair. It's game on from there.

Title	Chance to get a threesome, tips?
Author	project_nl
Upvotes	21
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Date	March 29, 2018 12:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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