When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely.

transoceanicdeath · 2018-08-27T01:45:55+00:00

Who gives a shit. The odds are heavily against you when she tells you that. So say something nice, be on your way and move on to the next one.

IntensePancakes · 2018-08-27T06:06:49+00:00

To those saying it's a shit test- "I have a boyfriend" is not a shit test. It is truly only said when they want you to fuck off.

A shit test is something meant to bust your balls, or to attempt to throw you off in order to test your frame. It's made to be passed. An example would be "do you say this to all girls?" or "I don't go home with guys I don't know".

"I have a boyfriend" is different. It is not a test meant to be passed. No girl wants to be viewed as someone who cheats on their boyfriend, whether he is real or imaginary. If they actually have a boyfriend and are at all interested in you, you probably won't hear about him.

pleasekillmenowok · 2018-08-27T08:11:17+00:00

lmaoo ppl saying a girl saying she has a bf is just a test are the reason girls say they have a bf when they dont. the amount of times ive told a guy i didnt like them and they kept trying until i told them i had a bf (which i did at the time actually, just didnt wanna be that girl that was like uhh i have a bf) is just sad

ISNT_A_ROBOT · 2018-08-27T00:10:59+00:00

100%..... Wtf

yookabanjo33 · 2018-08-27T02:44:08+00:00

Why you worried about it?

Move on.

WIA20XX · 2018-08-27T10:47:38+00:00

Depends on when she says it.

If it's after your first few words, she usually doesn't actually have a boyfriend.

But if you have been flirting for 5 minutes and she's flirting back - she is feeling guilty. But you can still move forward.

Trust me, if the girl is digging you, she'll have an entire relationship with you and keep her boyfriend/husband in the dark.

If you're getting this a lot, you need to really break down your game and figure out the reason for the poor response.

SocialReject101 · 2018-08-27T03:54:22+00:00

Not a single comment that this could be a shit test. Is this sub changing?

Better question woould be "How many of you have gotten past this line and hooked up with her only to discover she had no boyfriend?"

XDarkstarX1138 · 2018-08-27T06:50:05+00:00

It's a 50/50 if you're at work during the day. But if you meet her in the club at night and you don't see her hanging around a guy she's probably shit testing you.

One_Insanity · 2018-08-27T10:21:35+00:00

Of all the things I expected to spark a war on this sub. This is not one of them.

To appease both sides of the argument I'd say that if she pulls that card then you can stick around for a line or two depending on how it goes. Just to test the waters. It's not harassment and you're not giving up too easy.

If you push even one line further past "I have a boyfriend" you'll more than likely find out whether she's telling you to fuck off or not.

ThaBromar · 2018-08-27T02:00:50+00:00

If she asks you to go on a lunch date or something... just use the “you gotta boyfriend, let him take you out to eat.”

trentsteel2 · 2018-08-27T12:32:32+00:00

If it's a shit test just hit her back with the, "Yeah so, I have a girlfriend, did you assume I'm hitting on you?".

Throw it back at her, ask his name, don't jump through her loops.

If she really does have a boyfriend she will make it clear.

Kissofdeathxoxo · 2018-08-27T01:07:55+00:00

Need more details. Where did you meet her is she a friend? Just a random girl?

Jamal-BBC · 2018-08-27T07:29:40+00:00

Tell her "Just because there's a goalie in soccer, doesn't mean you can't score."

Lankyleeyum · 2018-08-27T08:34:19+00:00

Hit back with "So do I - but I'm keen to try something different, and I think we will have great chemistry together tonight. "

Works 100%.

60% of the time.

2018-08-27T12:43:54+00:00

Good Response : I'm not looking for a job.

Dima_de_Trebizond · 2018-08-27T08:18:53+00:00

A decent girl would not fuck with you behind her boyfriend's back

Alex_O7 · 2018-08-27T07:32:52+00:00

For those that are saying stuff like "100% true go away" or "it's not a shit test! Go away", you are simply BETAMALE, don't be offended by this, but it is plain simple the truth.

Read this splendid post, made when this sub had a lot of real men and was not full of pussies: Shit test.

It say clearly:

"I have a boyfriend."

Everyone has heard this one at some point. Most guys just eject and bail here, but it's always worth giving it another shot. Throwing out an alpha response here definitely takes some balls, but is generally worth the risk.

BETA RESPONSES: "Oh, I'm sorry!" followed by eject

ALPHA RESPONSES: "Oh, that's perfect--he can bake us cookies while we go out on adventures." "That's nice, well done." "That's okay, I'm not really the jealous type." "Yeah, so does my girlfriend." "Oh, so do I. Bet mine's cuter." (as you show a picture of your dog on your phone) "Your parents must be so proud." "Oh man, I'm so embarrassed. I thought you were a lesbian." "Are you allowed to talk to other men without his permission?" "I don't care." "We've only known each other for five minutes and you're already telling me your problems?"

There are a ton of brilliant responses to this one that I can't think of at the moment

So don't be offended to be called pussy, but work on your person and improve yourself. If you don't even want to try to pass a shit test like that you are in the wrong sub, so please leave now.

riemannismydad · 2018-08-27T01:17:49+00:00

Girls cheat all the time, just gotta be good looking and funny.

MIERDAPORQUE · 2018-08-27T04:28:39+00:00

It’s just a rebuttal. Just keep talking. You can still get her number unless she straight up seems disinterested

zhantoo · 2018-08-27T05:05:23+00:00

I actually had this happen last Wednesday. It was however followed up with that it was an open relationship.

That ment "what she could offer" was only for the night, and nothing more.

Zormut · 2018-08-27T03:47:14+00:00

What PUA will never tell you is that life is a competition and you will have to steal her from another guy. You either have a skill and guts to do it or not.

Title	When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely.
Author	riemannismydad
Upvotes	14
Comments	92
Date	August 26, 2018 11:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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