Overthinking this I know, but when you’re straddling a guy are you supposed to sit on his crotch?

2018-09-01T20:39:56+00:00

Just don’t break it

dodged_that_one · 2018-09-01T20:43:14+00:00

You can if you want.

He probably will.

Moving off is ok. Staying is ok. Grinding is sending clear signals that you want to take things to the next level now. Don't do this unless you are willing to follow through.

poltergiest4 · 2018-09-01T21:54:30+00:00

The only thing I can think from experience to say.

Don't sit on his belly button. Many girls sit on my stomach and grind into it making me nearly barf in their mouth.

ChocolateGlamazon27 · 2018-09-01T21:17:11+00:00

Glad to see female questions on here. Angle yourself on his crotch and curve/arch your back so he can get a visual and so he can put his hands on your back.

If he gets a boner, stay there if you are feeling comfortable. Heck, I'd grind against it a little bit if I was feeling it.

legumancer · 2018-09-01T20:35:27+00:00

Don't sit there, grind into that D. If he complains you must get up and leave and never speak to him again.

LordPrettyMax · 2018-09-02T03:02:57+00:00

It's fine as long as you let me fix my dick so it can be in a comfortable position

ethical_pa · 2018-09-02T04:00:18+00:00

I see what you're saying. You can stay there and grind if you want to. It may or may not be uncomfortable depending on the guy or the position. Start off slow so he can adjust. ***EDIT: If he pushes your hips away at first, don't freak out!!! He's probably not rejecting you. He needs to adjust his now swollen cock from the pitching a tent position (very uncomfortable) to the log under a blanket position.**\* What you want to do is "jack him off" using your crotch. Pretty simple. Once he's adjusted his dick in his underwear a bit, move your crotch up and down his shaft. He should guide your hips to where it is, and you might be able to feel it, depending on the clothes. If the guy is young and/or inexperience, he may jizz in his pants. No matter what though, he will want to fuck.

Have fun.

SAGNUTZ · 2018-09-02T01:29:51+00:00

Make ur mons pubis resting just above the stem of his penis, when it starts getting hard, adjust to lead it between your butt cheeks depending on length.

Edit: Question for you. I love someone who is aware that she needs to be "less than available" but hasn't pushed me away. How should I gauge my future attempts at reaching out?

2018-09-01T21:03:19+00:00

Oww, you're bending it! Lol...seriously though, if something hurts he'll tell you. Don't worry about it.

dontstopmenow1966 · 2018-09-02T07:35:50+00:00

Silly girl - don't tease a man unless it is a prelude to sex.

JayLar23 · 2018-09-02T02:17:30+00:00

Watch the balls though. Don't sit on them too quickly or forcefully. Could ruin the mood pretty quick.

clarkrobbo · 2018-09-02T01:51:01+00:00

One, there is no what if, he is going to get a boner.... He is enjoying it.... Its just a dick your not gonna break it... if he wants you to move im sure he will let you know... if you dont wanna sit on his boner you can move... just go with it, have fun... your obviously pretty young just enjoy the moment dont over think it... do whatever you are most comfortable with im the situation... your not gonna hurt the guy or the dick so more important make sure your comfort in the situation is where you want it.

2018-09-02T05:13:04+00:00

Let him move you to where he wants you.

Anatolysdream · 2018-09-02T06:50:26+00:00

If you're not sure, his face is always an option.

2018-09-02T01:56:15+00:00

Stand on the couch and squat on it. Like this video of Nicole Kidman molesting Jimmy Kimmel Except you are squatting down more.
Make sure his penis is facing down not up that way you wont hurt him by bending it the wrong way. If it's super hard you should probably just rub your beasts against......
ohh goddamnit.. unzips*

One_Insanity · 2018-09-01T21:16:39+00:00

What the fuck? Are we going to get the flip side of "Is she into you?" soon?

I mean seriously, how clueless are people nowadays that they have to ask this sort of question?

Where did all your primal instincts go? You can't figure out what to do when you're making out and on top of the dude? Come on for fuck's sake. This isn't rocket science.

If you wanna bone and he wants to bone then you bone.

Don't just sit. Grind. Get a handful and adjust it so it's pointing up, if you're feeling brave that is. Jesus Christ this feels like talking to a damn toddler which is funny considering the context.

Title	Overthinking this I know, but when you’re straddling a guy are you supposed to sit on his crotch?
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Date	September 1, 2018 8:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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