When I had few options with women I would stress a lot about whether a girl liked me. I would analyze the text messages seeing how much she wrote vs me. I would think back to our interactions and how happy she was when we were hanging out. However, many of these girls ended up being huge headaches for me. A lot of them would flake constantly and were sporadic in responding to me. When they did respond or when we hung out it always seemed great but it took a mountain of frustration to get them there.

As I began to have more options with women I began to realize that whether these women liked me or not did not matter. What mattered was if they were a good fit for me. In my life I cannot be sending dozens of messages and schedule tons of dates with a girl who is difficult. As it turns out the women who were the easiest to get out also turned out to be the easiest to maintain a sexual relationship with. Now I care less if the girl likes me or not, what I care about is if she is a good fit for my life. I cut out the 80% of women that were giving me problems and only pursued the 20% that were easier and still retained at least 80% of my results. My life was infinitely better.

If you are worrying about whether a girl likes you or not, try asking yourself a different question: Is this girl good for me and my life? You always have a choice in the matter. Don't forget to use it.

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