I had a rather bad argument with my GF. And it just proofed pretty much everything about TRP especially about women being like children.

  1. She showed 0 empathy or understanding for my concern

    The actual reason for the fight is to complex to get into. Anyway she showed 0 empathy or understanding on a rational level. I was just 100% wrong.

  2. She is completely indecisive

    We were at my place and she repeatedly packed and unpacked her stuff. And said she would leave. I did not respond to that just let her pack.

  3. She pulled the crying card multiple times

    And when it did not succeed she suddenly was not sad anymore.

  4. Power-play makes her submissive

    So the argument was about what I did at her place. She says something on the line "You are a guest at my place and have to behave like one." She is standing at my door, ready to leave. I say just wait a minute and go get the key she gave me unasked to her place, hand it back to her and say. "Guests don't have keys."

    And her mood suddenly changes to apologetic and submissive. She obviously thought I was breaking up (that wasn't actually my intention). She gets sad. Now she suddenly wants to stay but says she needs some time and leaves but leaving her stuff at my place and says she will be pack in half an hour.

  5. Provokes me

    She gets back after the promised half an hour. Cigarette Pack at top of her purse. She isn't a smoker, only smokes casually and knows I hate it. She then proceed to go on my balcony preparing to smoke. I have literately told her once no smoking at my place. She I have to step up and say stop it.

Anyway I now imagine how I would probably have handled that just couple month ago. I would have apologized even though not thinking I was fully wrong. Just to please her and end the fight. I would have never, ever made the move with the key. And I would have not demanded not smoking. Would just have let her so the fight doesn't escalate further. But this argument just showed be so much about women being like children. So true...

tl;dr

Had fight with GF and she behaved like a child.