Girls have gotta take their shot more often, and handle rejection like WOMEN.

kettlebell_workout · 2020-09-14T02:51:20+00:00

A woman motivating other women to approach men.

You don't see this often.

This post is GOAT.

2020-09-14T18:34:54+00:00

if a women is willing to approach she is likely to find a hot guy who's love shy. That means he will likely be sweet, loyal and generous.

If women are not willing to approach, they are likely to end up with a fuk boy narcissist like myself.

When I get rejected I feel good. I love being out there in the field and being rejected makes me feel like i'm having fun

lel

skullirang · 2020-09-14T03:18:58+00:00

There’s a lot more demand for higher value males and less women go for lower value males nowadays. So yes there will be fierce competition for the limited amount of attractive guys available.

cottagecorehoe · 2020-09-14T01:49:24+00:00

I’m a woman and I approach men all the time. I occasionally get hit with rejection and I know it’s a part of the process and move on. But it took effort and a proper mindset and a conscious goal to be comfortable approaching and asking guys out. I had to place myself outside of my comfort zone; now that I have, I don’t think I’d ever stop approaching guys. It’s my style now! I think I’ve asked out almost everyone I’ve ended up dating or hooking up with.

I will say, learning to handle rejection for some people is not easy. Approaching someone does take a level of confidence and sense of self to not allow a rejection to impact you greatly. Putting yourself out of your comfort zone is not easy. This is difficult for anyone, guy or girl or whoever.

kalz44 · 2020-09-14T20:18:18+00:00

This thread sorta went crazy. My two cents, there's gonna be a point in which someone or both (or more) has to put themselves out there to get rejected. In the beginning it's traditionally men. Later on it's women. If you're not happy with your dating life for whatever reason. Put yourself out there...man or women or whoever.

Note: This talk about high value men and high value women is such a waste of mental energy. If you think a guy is cute, talk to him. If you think a girl is cute, talk to her. Nothing else really matter aside from how the two of you interact.

Xazax310 · 2020-09-14T20:54:27+00:00

My two cents on this is, i think it’s fine for a girl to approach a guy, ask them out... or say they fancy you whatever. But it should be then the guy that leads and furthers the interaction if he accepts. Such as making a firm date, being the male and leading. I actually me and my GF had dinner with her coworker and her husband. this was the exact thing how they met in college. She asked him out. They’ve been married for 17 years now.

Again I’m going to say the year 2020 doesn’t matter... women have approached men or have made really big hints they liked a guy throughout history...

Grizzlies5003 · 2020-09-14T08:34:33+00:00

Well, naturally theres less high Value men, it makes sense. Women are programmed to want strong men... but not all men are initially programmed to be strong. Some take years to develop, and some take alot longer

Title	Girls have gotta take their shot more often, and handle rejection like WOMEN.
Author	areeemeeyet
Upvotes	95
Comments	32
Date	September 14, 2020 1:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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