Unpopular Opinion: You need to be texting the girl you are dating in between dates

Joojoop1 · 2020-09-22T18:58:40+00:00

I love it when a guy texts or calls me in-between dates. If I don't hear from them I assume they aren't interested

cryptedp · 2020-09-22T22:47:30+00:00

I always figure a guy isn't interested in me if he doesn't text between dates. I generally just move on if he doesn't

bubbleburgz · 2020-09-23T02:35:54+00:00

It’s nice when it goes both ways too. I want to be pursued also

IHTFP08 · 2020-09-22T20:08:54+00:00

I’d have to say I agree with you. The topics/frequency depend on the people.

Someone’s going to say it’s “needy”. Sure if YOU are needy, you’re texts will be needy. Which is why you can’t fake it.

2020-09-23T05:10:28+00:00

Absolutely. If you don’t message me between dates, I’m assuming you’re not interested and moving on. I always think it’s funny when a guy asks me why I moved on and is shocked to hear I thought he wasn’t interested.

Hello. Text a girl!

pooinmypants12 · 2020-09-22T22:37:48+00:00

100%. A lot of people that practice game think you can trick women into sleeping with you, maybe you can if you are in the top 10% of high value males, even then it’s only primal attraction. If you are not however in the top 10%, you need to relate to the other person which is where most attraction is built from that isn’t just primal instinct. If you want to get someone to really like you, keep communicating.

DavidCameronEtonLad · 2020-09-23T21:44:47+00:00

the idea of only texting a girl for setting up dates is from the older people on this usb that dont really use social media like that and dont get how important it is/can be in building up social value and rapport with women nowadays. I agree not everyday texting her because then what would you have to talk about in the real world but even if its sending memes on IG or replying to her story now and then, its needed to keep up the interest

NateHate1402 · 2020-09-22T18:24:27+00:00

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2020-09-23T05:39:43+00:00

I agree with this. I like knowing the guy wants to get to know me, to get the chance for me to know him. And texting or calling between dates let’s me feel like he is Actually interested. Even if you just wanna casual lay, at least PRetend to be interested in us as people. Communicate.

2020-09-24T00:41:13+00:00

I agree with this totally, it’s and outdated concept, I lost two girls cause of it

scohrdarkshadow · 2020-09-25T02:54:59+00:00

Yeah I first heard the advice about only using a phone to set up dates around 2008. Back then phone etiquette was very different. Nowadays you absolutely need to be texting regularly

ta69999 · 2020-09-23T02:59:42+00:00

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LevelUp84 · 2020-09-22T21:19:55+00:00

I think it black and white these days because guys flood women with messages in between dates.

2020-09-23T04:16:31+00:00

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18cmOfGreatness · 2020-09-23T06:32:03+00:00

This rule is for first dates and for those who just want to have sex with as many girls as fast as possible. If you have 10+ numbers from girls you met from cold approach or in club then you'll just waste your time trying to texting them all a lot. You just use messaging to set dates and then try to fuck the girls on the first date. This is what you do to have sex with many girls. If you just want to find a girlfriend then of course you can talk to girls as much as you want. If getting a girlfriend is achievement to you then you don't have enough experience to teach anyone. It is way easier to get a gf than to sleep with 10 new girls. Most seduction rules are for casual sex.

Title	Unpopular Opinion: You need to be texting the girl you are dating in between dates
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	105
Comments	36
Date	September 22, 2020 6:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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