Women who complain men only want one thing, yet like like Male sexual desire?, need help understanding this

appmanga · 2020-11-17T20:34:02+00:00

Women loved to be desired, but they hate being objectified. Women are just as sexual as men, but they want to be valued for more than than sex. If she doesn't know you, want you, or trust you, she doesn't want that desire projected onto her; it's creepy. Project your energy into getting her to trust you.

Disguised-Pua · 2020-11-17T20:43:59+00:00

Stop listening to what she's saying. Feminine energy is based on emotion, not logic. You're using your logical brain to evaluate the feminine and you'll only be disappointed.

coyavenue · 2020-11-17T21:38:31+00:00

I think the issue is certain men hyper-fixate on the act of sex and their sexual desire for women. They forget that women are multi-dimension beings who have value and purpose outside of sex and their body.

As a woman I like sex and feel desire too but the lust I feel for my partner is intensified by the emotional and intellectual connection I share with him aswell. Women want to have desire in their relationships with men but don’t want to feel like that’s the only reason their partner is sticking around. So when a dude is ONLY focusing on sex and my physical appearance, I feel like an object that is only admired for its purpose. Not who I am as a person or anything else I bring to the table, it can feel degrading and rude tbh.

There is a time and a place to appropriately express your sexual and romantic desires to your partner. Its like those memes where the girl texts something serious and the guy replies “ah sorry to hear that your mom died, can you send me a pic of ur tits tho”.... instant turn off emotionally and physically. Long story short balance is key.

Also this applies in any situation. If you treat a woman well and acknowledge other things about her outside of sex, it will grow her level of physical attraction to you.

OGthelegendaryplaya · 2020-11-17T20:22:32+00:00

Women have sexual desires they want satisfied just like most human beings.

It's not as socially accepted for women to express this desire because she doesn't want to sound easy.

Nothing to understand. Women want to have sex. Project masculine energy.

paddywacknack · 2020-11-17T22:27:29+00:00

Women like guys who want them but, don't need them aka a guy who desires her but, doesn't need her to be happy and fulfilled.

LaceIsMyThing · 2020-11-17T22:18:18+00:00

I have no problem with a man being horny, but I want to feel like you want me, not just 'the sex'. Show her that you want her, not just a vagina lol, show your interest and enthusiasm, we do like it but make it personal 😜

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-11-17T21:54:42+00:00

Look at it this way. Every woman has a movie playing in her head, its starring her and directed by her. The only thing she doesnt do though is edit it.

As to your question, woman complain about male sexual desire because they would like to have it "the way they think it is" not how we actually do it in real life.

This obviously makes no sense to men but it makes perfect sense to the woman cause they have their own idea of what it should look like.

Its precisely why we constantly say "dont ask the fish, ask the fisherman" because the fish doesnt even know what the fish wants only what it thinks it does.

In short dont worry the complaints on her end. Simply do what you think is correct and if she response well keep doing that.

StephenDawg · 2020-11-17T20:52:47+00:00

It's the quality of the energy and who it's coming from. Women are inundated with attention from most men, and most men are not attractive - both in absolute terms and relative to other men who give them attention. Women want attention from men they find attractive. Sometimes the energy fulfills both roles and acts as the attention and the impetus for their attraction. But usually, it's just attention at women who don't desire them.

owlsarentscary · 2020-11-18T03:12:39+00:00

Lmao, so true. (At the title)

roohevn · 2020-11-21T19:35:06+00:00

I think that there are a couple of different issues within this question, and one is male-owned and the other is female-owned.

As for the first, male-owned issue: as others have mentioned already, no one likes to feel vaguely menaced. If a well-intentioned-but-not-suave guy comes on too strong, it comes off as annoying overeagerness, which isn't sexy. If the man seems like he may not have good intentions, but is rather nonchalantly "rapey,' then of course a woman starts looking for the nearest exit, with pictures of Robert Chambers and Ted Bundy dancing in her head. These behaviors are different from a man clearly expressing sexual attraction, either by word or deed. Even if that attraction isn't reciprocated, it's always complimentary and it's an arrogant woman with no imagination who sees it otherwise.

When it's a female-owned issue: I think that it's fair to say that sometimes women "complain" as a form of boasting. Other women generally can detect this behavior instantly, and often will archly comment behind the complainer's back, e.g., "OMG, she, like, hates how all the guys just besiege her!" etc. Women can get quite catty with another woman whose rampant ego is obvious because unlike men, we aren't socialized to be overtly competitive; also most cultures at least pay lip service to the notion that conceit is an undesirable trait, especially when found in women.

Title	Women who complain men only want one thing, yet like like Male sexual desire?, need help understanding this
Author	owlsarentscary
Upvotes	8
Comments	52
Date	November 17, 2020 8:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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