One of my biggest problems and I think a problem of many is needyness. I have been working very hard on creating more of an abundance mindset. But I realise the moment I am being put to the test to show myself I am less needy then I was its dissapointing.

To give a prime example. I have had 2 succesfull dates with a girl and both dates where very fun and went well. But between the dates and now after the second date I feel affraid she might stop responding or the text game between dates will go wrong and I feel it makes me a bit stressed out.

I am not sure how to let go of this feeling.

Any ideas/tips from here?