How to relax on first date?

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-24T02:37:08+00:00

What the fuck? Guys you do not need pharmaceuticals to go on a fucking date and if you do you've got work to do.

What are you going on a date for? Are you putting on a performance? Personally, there are few things more relaxing than going on a date, because I go in with the intention of being aggressively myself; just dressing slightly better than usual. If a woman is not down with how I am 95% of the time, I want to know now. If you go in not being yourself and performing, you're just delaying the inevitable. Eventually, the performer's mask will slip and she'll see a boring, regular guy and wonder where the other guy went.

Jesus fucking valium to go on a date.

rjones416 · 2024-03-24T03:35:08+00:00

Try not to think about it too much. Get fresh and put some music on that hypes you up. The whole point of a first date is to see if she's good enough to be on your roster. This is your show and she's just a guest on it.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-03-24T05:33:53+00:00

Practice.

There's no other way around it. You'll have to go on a lot of first dates to get good at it.

However, one thing I do suggest is to know what you're going to say beforehand. Know what kinds of questions you'll be asking and prepare for her answers and be prepared to give your own.

SparkleKitty-333 · 2024-03-24T00:04:02+00:00

2 shots of tequila (or fireball…) before any date.

Wooden_Strawberry835 · 2024-03-24T11:24:55+00:00

An unusual thing which has helped me is to listen to podcasts or YouTube videos of something you are currently pursuing in life (other than women).

For instance I put on a podcast about career/business while driving to the dates and it just gets me into the mindset of thinking about my goals (again other than getting women).

When I arrive I’m always in the mindset that even if the date is going to be complete shit I will just go home and continue the grind, so nothing really changes for me no matter the outcome.

fathathead · 2024-03-24T02:00:43+00:00

I find something either 50% alcohol in it and take a chug or 2. Your nerves are still there but you’re relaxed. Less stiff. And confidence

MechanicReady3523 · 2024-03-24T01:38:40+00:00

You don’t need substances. You need to feel confident that no matter how the date goes it will be a positive and fun experience.

gothbaddiewtf · 2024-03-24T00:08:10+00:00

propanolol

PeachFantastic9169 · 2024-03-24T00:21:16+00:00

Diazepam (valium) lowest dose

Title	How to relax on first date?
Author	Durden93
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Date	March 23, 2024 11:49 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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