At Some Point “Day Game Sessions” start getting degenerate.

steegyy · 2024-03-22T23:34:54+00:00

Correct. Scheduled sessions are for beginners that need to commit to themselves to do something. Once you get some experience just go about your life and seize the opportunities that present themselves.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-23T00:11:25+00:00

Agree to a certain extent. After you get over approach anxiety, a lot of guys have a specific lay count or have a goal of getting whatever amount of different types of girls. And the best way to expedite that process is cold approach sessions, in addition to just approaching in your day-to-day life. About 2/3 of my total Day game approaches have been just out and about. One thing for me personally though, is that I find approach sessions legitimately fun. When you get over not just approach anxiety, but also audience anxiety, and learn how to be fully expressive in conversations, it's legit fun to do approach sessions. But I know I'm not the average.

Mysterious_Pickle_78 · 2024-03-23T03:52:04+00:00

You need to keep on approaching until you develop a strong understanding of yourself, your ego, learn to control your emotions, learn to read girls and calibrate yourself, and understand PUA concepts such as value, comfort, seduction etc.

Until that. You are still a noob. The greatest self development a man can do is PUA.

Jironasaurus · 2024-03-23T05:48:38+00:00

Working on your money, status and looks won't get you more girls. My buddy has clients who are VCs, CEOs. They couldn't get the women they wanted. It does however, gets you that little bit of initial attention. But I'd say continue working on those, because they form part of who you are. Women are attracted by who you are at the end of the day too.

That being said, no one really has time to get out there and day game for hours on end. If you're doing that, you're not doing it right. You may argue the skillset of approaching needs to be honed, but... it's just approaching. It's the tip of the entire iceberg. Don't spend all your time honing a skill that's merely part of an overall bigger picture.

ohropax · 2024-03-23T07:28:32+00:00

Just do it wherever and whenever. If dedicated sessions help you do it then do it.

Nothing degenerate about going out with the intention to meet new people.

Fun-Instance7757 · 2024-03-23T05:51:04+00:00

What's an IOI?

Amoot_wepski23 · 2024-03-23T22:18:36+00:00

Agreed , however too degenerate is so terrifying not as terrifying as being seen unshaven or unfit or even stressed out for one second of life it can easily happen if you aren’t in a good place before you begin who would introduce themselves as someone who isn’t sustainable basically unreliable I’d wait till I’m pretty much set but you don’t want too much time away from the things you love doing the most the mind is powerful it’s not everything but it’s powerful enough to turn your life around if you get results gotta reward them even if nobody else is involved celebrating achievements with fun activities is crucial so is buying the right tools for the job you plan to do also sorry , but yeh great company is not fake if you lose your personality while trying to achieve a better status you risk disconnecting or worse ppl replacing you with rip off versions of you for a fake status or the brainwashing from other people who generally don’t favour the competition when it comes to claiming status. Haha definately correct me if I’m wrong here

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-24T12:35:16+00:00

Looks and money are almost never going to get you the girl. If you think you can impress a girl with how much money you make and she is going to start dating you because of that, then you don’t understand women. Most women will see you as try hard and lose all attraction. Looks helps, but works the same way. Looks are an opener, and icing on the cake. But you need a good cake first.

It all comes down to game and social skills. Luck plays a role too since some girls will like your type. But, looks, status, and money is a road to nowhere in terms of dating for most guys.

Work on your social skills and play the numbers game. Branch out from day game since it’s limited.

Still-Horror1199 · 2024-03-25T01:26:00+00:00

I call bs on your last sentence, that stuff will help , but it’s not going to make girls just start approaching you , how many times you hear a dating coach say they got clients with money but they can’t talk to or attract girls?

isocialeyes97 · 2024-03-23T02:32:40+00:00

I've considered teaming up with guys off here to do scheduled day game sessions in my city but it seems too staged. Where I live in Australia girls don't really get approached by men in public daytime settings (nor night times as much) so you risk coming across as creepy or that odd guy etc. I guess it takes some degree of game or natural touch to make it seem unintentional as a 'pick up' with a false time constraint etc.

The only time I did 'daygame' was recently in Bangkok, Thailand because the culture is much more relaxed and open to it. Thai women tend to show IOIs exponentially more than Western women, so that helps too. I didn't feel odd or creepy approaching women at all in Thailand. At least with the ones I approached because there were IOIs beforehand.

I didn't even really intentionally go out my day thinking "Today we're gonna do some daygame". I just went out as usual, if I saw IOIs, I'd go in for the kill, chat and grab their Line QR Code (Whatsapp equivalent in Thailand) and go from there.

bearowsley · 2024-03-23T07:34:18+00:00

for me, at the moment it is just a nice walk with a friend, whith some interruptions because one of us is talking to girls. Also, we do sets of two, with opinion openers. Great fun!

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-03-23T18:10:55+00:00

This will get downvoted, but agree 100%. If you just spam approach all day, at certain point you have a low value, desperate energy

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-23T11:22:12+00:00

Completely agree. I can't think of anything more needy and weird than spending hours on a corner trying to bother any passingly attractive woman just so you can post a field report and claim you are getting better and one of these days it will click for you. Unfortunately, I did it for years and it is the most inefficient and unproductive waste of time. Plus any of the losers who advocate daygame and approaching 1000s of women, if any of them had success, they'd be too busy fucking their girlfriends than to keep going out every day to bother more women.

Title	At Some Point “Day Game Sessions” start getting degenerate.
Author	ScientificArtichoke
Upvotes	75
Comments	25
Date	March 22, 2024 10:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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