I want to have a discussion about the LOVER vs the PROVIDER. Back in the day I learned this concept from old Pick up teachers like Owen cook from RSD.

It really stuck with me, and the gist of it was this: Women get with two kinds of guys for two different reasons. One is for love. One is for resources.

Now obviously it’s not that black and white, but in general that’s the case. For example, she might sleep with the Muay Thai surfer guy who lives in Thailand while on vacation on the first night. But when she goes home she’s going to make the lawyer wait 4 or 5 dates

Owen even talked about experiences where he would bring a girl back to his mansion, and he would tell her that it wasn’t his, he was just crashing on the couch while his friend was gone, because in general if the girl found out, she would tell him she would try and date him.

I’m not rich so I can’t verify that that is the case but in my own experience, I feel like I’ve leaned more towards the lover role. Now obviously a girl is going to LOVE her man who provides for her, and we want both, to provide and to love.

But there are many cases I have seen personally where a girl starts to get old, and you can tell she settles with the stable guy who is kind of boring.

But you know all of her exes were these wild fun guys.

As I get older I actually am trying to lean more into stability and I know I want a family one day, but am happy most of my experience has just been being the fun guy. I want a girl to actually like me for me, not just what I bring to the table.

Anyways this is all very new for me so I’m just spitting whatever is in my head about this stuff. I would love some of your opinions!