I’m 27 she is 21. She has left me but signed a stipulation of she keeps her car and card and all her debts and I do the same. No kids no payments. Our accounts were just linked so I already uncoupled them at the bank. I was gonna take the year to pay things off and then move somewhere far away to begin again. I just wanted to know if that would be a normal amount of time to wait? I had only had one relationship before that and she was the first woman I had ever taken to bed, I just have a high value for sex in a relationship and I do want to find someone as I get a deep sense of meaning of being there for someone.