Makes me wonder if I'm in the calm before the storm or not....

I signed the paperwork Monday, it was officially "accepted" by the court Tuesday morning - no idea if she's been served or not. On Monday, she posted a screenshot of something I'd uploaded to FB essentially mocking me, saying "Y'all please pray for my dear husband" with a few emojis. The post I made was basically asking for an unspoken prayer request. (Not going to get in to religion, but I do find comfort in praying that there is a higher power somewhere)

Anyhow, since then she's blocked all my family members yada yada, only getting one word responses when I ask about the kids.

"How are the kids?"
Great.

"Where is the field trip on Friday?"
Location

I told her she knows I didn't want it to end up this way (I know, I know) and I get hit with the ole "Unless this is about the kids we shouldn't be communicating."

I dunno. On one hand, I wonder if this is the "calm before the storm" in which she makes my life hell.
On the other, I wonder if she was served and sees I'm not playing anymore.

I kinda wish she would fight for us, like I feel I have been since September, but such is life.

Oh, I got in to our bank account, the one always negative. ~Almost 4k USD spend in the last 12 months on just TWO package/beverage stores. So not including restaurant margaritas etc. Plus $850 in overdraft fees.

I haven't even added up the money spent going out to eat.

Its sick.