My stbx and I agreed to split the few items we have to remember our late daughter by. She was 3 days old when she died, and two of those items have her scent from the hospital. If you're a parent I'm sure you'd understand how that's important. It was to me and my then-wife, and we kept those items in a box to keep that scent as best we could. When I told her I wanted to split those items, I made it known I had to get a suitable box first, one that could keep that scent but also one which showed dignity to our daughter and wasn't just a shoebox.

So this morning we agreed to do this transfer/split, but when I went to hand my stbx the box I brought, she said the stuff I'd take was outside on the porch. Sitting in an open box. And now there's no smell on my daughter's blanket.

I'm pissed and hurt. There's no excuse for this, for disrespecting our daughter or trying to spite me. I don't know what to do, this woman just lives to hurt me now and I want it to stop. She took something very precious to me and tarnished it. She's detestable