Buffet feminism

disayle32 · 2024-05-22T17:08:29+00:00

"Protect girls from all forms of genital cutting! But not boys, because fuck them and fuck you."

everybodyluvzwaymond · 2024-05-22T16:54:12+00:00

This, in part, is what got me to start questioning stock college feminism. There was not a satisfying answer to these things even among other feminists. If you want to get a guy or gal thinking, bring up buffet feminism

Street_Conflict_9008 · 2024-05-22T17:45:02+00:00

One of the biggest issues is to protect the DV standard in school. All examples of abuse is Females as VICTIMS and Males as ABUSERS. At the end in small print, these are examples, males can be victims as well. This is to cover themselves.

It requires actually providing examples, not just lip service to cover themselves. This just feeds a stereotype.

63daddy · 2024-05-22T17:04:22+00:00

Feminism is full of such hypocrisies.

A few more:

It’s unequal if slightly more men choose to go into athletics, justifying quota limitations on men, but it’s fine if yoga, aerobics, palates, etc are 95% female.

Same thing with more men going into some STEM majors while it’s fine most majors are female dominated.

It was seen as a gender crisis needing fixing when more men went to med school, but more women now going to med school is applauded as a success.

Feminists argue men and women are equal and should be treated equally, but then claim women don’t have the agency men do, should receive lighter criminal sentencing, be eligible for additional payed leave, should be advantaged in job hiring and business ownership, etc.

Succulent_Rain · 2024-05-22T21:58:51+00:00

This is why men are opting out of going on dates and would prefer to play video games, watch porn, go to the gym, or travel solo. More of us should do this.

WhereProgressIsMade · 2024-05-22T20:54:38+00:00

I think it goes back to first wave feminism in the US. One of the arguments many women made against women getting the vote was that they thought they could then be drafted too. They then got to vote without any risk of being drafted. It set a bad precedent.

klafhofshi · 2024-05-22T22:01:51+00:00

"Liberation for me, but traditional obligations for thee."

Kvltizt · 2024-05-22T17:45:26+00:00

Women be like "My body my choice!" Then proceed to circumcize their sons.

Derpalator · 2024-05-22T16:24:28+00:00

Sorry to repeat but “no reason or accountability “ is what women’s first impulse is. Sad, but true in just about every case.

blackdahlialady · 2024-05-23T05:21:54+00:00

This. My daughter's father decided he doesn't want to be involved. People told me to take him for child support. I told them I'm not going to. The women inevitably called me stupid for nOt mAkiNg HiM pAy. He said he doesn't want to be involved and I'm not going to force him to be. If women can get abortions, men should be able to financially opt out. Of course you know the same women saying I should make him pay are all, mY bOdY, mY cHoiCe. Well then why can't a man say, my life, my choice? They yell about how men should be forced to pay and call him a deadbeat if he isn't involved.

Yet if if anyone tells them they can't get an abortion or shouldn't be able to without informing the father, it's bUt I'm a wOmAn, yOu cAn'T tEll mE wHaT tO dO! That's exactly it. They say they want equal rights but they just want to be able to act however they want to without consequence. Meanwhile, they expect a man to pay for everything. When I met my ex, I told him I support men's rights and I meant it. He doesn't want to be a father and I'm not going to force the issue. Besides, if I did, he would be resentful for being forced into it and would most likely mistreat my daughter. That's not a risk I'm willing to take and again I'm not going to force it.

Edit: I meant to say that they need to learn that freedom from choice doesn't mean freedom from consequences. I feel like if someone pays child support and then paternity fraud is discovered, the mother should be court ordered to pay it back or go to jail.

Celebration8941 · 2024-05-22T18:46:52+00:00

toxic feminity. I have a list of 20+ things about it

Angryasfk · 2024-05-23T06:22:49+00:00

Most feminism is buffet equality.

All male clubs should admit women, all female clubs are needed for safety and common support.

Women are a minority in IT and engineering? We must lower the entrance requirements to get more women to enrol and heavily favour hiring them to get 50:50 in jobs even though they’re the minority of the candidate pool. Men a minority in virtually every other field, and falling? Nothing to see here folks: just men choosing to not do it.

Men need to step up in child care and not leave the load to women. Default 50:50 custody is wrong and bad for children.

Discrimination against women in hiring is evil and wrong and must be stamped out. Discrimination against men in hiring is positive and needs to be expanded.

Men behaving selfishly in relationships or in dating is bad and examples of men’s sense of entitlement. Women behaving in the same way is “empowering” and a wonderful development! (See The Guardian’s puff piece on FDS for evidence of this).

paraque159 · 2024-05-22T16:11:45+00:00

I wish this term was the agreed one narrative wise like “feminists” agree on buzz words like a political party. It’s funny, clear meaning, coveys the problem eloquently/simply, memorable AND they can’t find a way to call it misogynistic. Although I imagine they’ll find away to say it shames obese women or something lol.

hasbulla_magomedov · 2024-05-23T05:14:40+00:00

The third statement always gets on my nerves. Women whine and whine about there not being enough women in stem and high corporate jobs. Yet every single blue collar job is extremely male dominated. But you will never hear a peep about that

SomeoneRandom007 · 2024-05-22T18:32:41+00:00

You stole and reposted my comment.

Marvelous_dahhhling · 2024-05-23T07:57:50+00:00

“Fat men are gross and no one wants them.” Vs “ She’s not fat, she’s a curvy Queen and if you don’t like it you’re misogynistic and fat phobic. Do better.”

Ricoshete · 2024-05-23T00:14:24+00:00

If you could have people pay for your meals, offer to take you places for free, give you half of your money. And all you had to do was take care of your body (somewhat. Lots of 8 or 9/10 men with perky beards, 6 packs and abs and money, dating 3/10s or 660/10 Mrs. Honey Boo boos (660 lbs is just a number!)

You would try to take it right, avoid the sketchy gambles (creepy/possessive partners), take the meal tickets.

But it's pretty much a gender locked option or the paradox.

You can rely on it, but you can be more independent without it. And if people fall through, some of them never planned a backup.

But all things being equal, if they planned a parachute, they can pick from the benefits and mitigate the risks. Cafeteria feminism.

It'd be like if society let you get paid for working without needing to show up, just because they were desperate for your genitals, not who you were, as a person.

I've known straight men who've flat out said they're straight, but for 5 million dollars for a 'bad bj', they'd sex change to get half of 10 million for 1 bj of a rich person's divorce lmao.

Title	Buffet feminism
Author	AbleismIsSatan
Upvotes	239
Comments	43
Date	May 22, 2024 3:53 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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