What to do with distant people

ExpensiveGrave · 2024-07-03T15:19:44+00:00

Move on. They’re not interested. It couldn’t be anymore in your face and yet you ignore it.

Work on yourself so that women want to talk to you. This usually means work on your physical appearance. You’re probably lacking like 95%+ of guys here.

Blitted_Master · 2024-07-03T15:19:38+00:00

Focus on women who give you the energy you’re looking for.

BXtherapist · 2024-07-03T15:04:11+00:00

It builds resentment lol..

Ask me how I know..

Dub em

DaygameCode · 2024-07-03T17:20:38+00:00

If you had self respect you would simply go away for good and focus on new women. The guys who don’t have any self respect or dignity keep trying to overcome this situation by telling themselves it is some kind of challenge from the woman designed to prove something to her.

That’s why real men never get this type of issues whereas needy, insecure, desperate men who lack options always cling onto this thing because deep down they believe that women treating them like shit is all they deserve.

Saying “I try not the desperate”, while also saying: “I keep trying to match her energy” are contradictory things. You are either desperate or you are not, not such thing as “trying not to “be desperate”.

Trying to play according to her terms or trying to match her energy, or playing into games like that shows you are desperate.

Because desperation comes from the belief that you have to win her over no matter what, because you don’t think you’ll get anyone better or someone who will treat you as you wish to be treated.

garnageman · 2024-07-03T15:08:55+00:00

Say something polarizing or controversial to get a reaction out of them

otherwise

Just move on to a different woman. If they're not that into you, whats the point?

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-07-03T21:35:48+00:00

What to do with distant people

I would move on. Unless she is the 1 10/10 per year I see.

It frankly it is not worth the effort and it requires a lot of finesse.

Have come into contact with women who are distant and won’t text more than once a day.

Oooo that shit.

Advice : avoid or minimise texting - there is no actual game you can do there . (Just confirm the date and be done until she a) flakes or b) is on the date)

I try not to be desperate and just match their energy but man is it exhausting.

Don’t . There is a hotter , better girl that likes you more around the corner.

Is this a game they play?

Sometimes, I need to see what she is answering to tell you.

Sadly at this point we have the internet and IT is not worth your time to stick to one girl for a long period if there is back and forth. It really isn’t worth the effort.

Psykisktrakassering1 · 2024-07-04T02:10:21+00:00

"Is this a game they play?"

Nope. They are genuinely not as interested in interacting as you are.

Do a test. Go silent for about 3 days and see if they text you first. If not, text them just to say hello.

When playing games like this to get a read of where the other person's head is at, never go radio silent for more than 3 days.

If you go radio silent for 5 days and then they text you out of the blue and you start texting all desperately again, they'll know that you going ghost was just a way to try and rope them in. And then they will distance themselves even more from you. Or completely.

CoffinEluder · 2024-07-04T17:11:34+00:00

Just delt with this myself. Delete and move on

IcyTemperature1193 · 2024-07-03T19:25:06+00:00

Title	What to do with distant people
Author	UNCLEJUMBLE
Upvotes	13
Comments	23
Date	July 3, 2024 2:59 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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