Recently I’ve been experiencing this. Girls would usually want to be treated somewhat nice and once I’d have sex with them, they will want to text me more, see me more, etc etc. makes sense because now they have “given it up”.

However, my last few recent girls have been quite different. They’ll give it up on the second date but their interest doesn’t change. “Giving it up” is no longer actually valuable to them.

One incident I had recently is this girl and I hooked up on the second date(and no protection), for the third date she suggested tacos (casual mid-week date)and I asked her do you want to plan it - next date on you? She happily agreed and we agreed to meet at the place she picked, only to later say she didn’t want the date to be on her. So I concluded she values $20-30 worth of tacos more than sleeping with someone.

I didn’t see her again. What a shame. What do you guys think of situations like this? What are other ways you change this dynamic?