How do I keep her hooked over text?

Rollorich · 2024-07-23T12:44:21+00:00

You don't. If she messages just ask her when she's free to meet and make a date. Otherwise you're going to talk her out of liking you

FeelLikeVoldo · 2024-07-23T12:54:27+00:00

Calling or FaceTiming is more intimate than texting

berzerker5000 · 2024-07-23T12:04:15+00:00

Are you getting past first base on the first dates? If not that is one problem. You shouldn’t need to try that hard, if she is into you. But you do want to plan for the second date early so there is something concrete to look forward to and then you can just keep her warm with playful flirting until that time. If there is no plan, she may interpret that as weakness on your part to lead. If she leaves you on read, then Greyrock her a couple weeks and text again. Remember, you have options and don’t gaf or have time to circle back with chicks that aren’t texting you back.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-07-23T12:04:26+00:00

I've always had that same problem too. This is why I usually only use texting to meetup again. I think women get bored by texting. you could try calling her instead too.

zebekias · 2024-07-23T14:36:08+00:00

The very best way (that I know of) is by being an attractive guy with lots of options. All the neediness and overtexting goes out the window...

You are likely not there yet, it's totally OK to fake-it-til-you-make-it. Self restrict texting to the bare minimum for date logistics.

poet0588 · 2024-07-23T18:12:03+00:00

Like everyone has basically said.. Only text to set dates. Be a busy man even if you’re laying on your couch not doing shit. Trust me I used to struggle with this as well!

Tatleman68 · 2024-07-23T15:08:46+00:00

Nah man, you'll need to see her face-to-face

BarryBold8 · 2024-07-23T21:11:36+00:00

This only works in long distance situations.

Reply back when you can

Have get deep into it in moments where it’s like 2 texts a minute really talk

Use all the senses in conversation

Make it fun, iPhones have a ton of new things with stickers and emojis where you can get really playful

TodayOrTmrw · 2024-07-23T21:38:58+00:00

I'll speak from my experience. Listen. It doesn't matter if you got to first base, 2nd, or even 10th base. If a women is interested in you; they will not leave you alone. That includes not meeting for 2 weeks/3 weeks.

I personally think you did not leave they with anything to remember and that's not referring to sex. I'm referring to them feeling special from the last time they saw you. Why should they meet with you again over someone else?

appolonysian · 2024-07-23T21:49:56+00:00

Gonna echo some other people here and say you don’t. Trying too hard to converse over text is not the move - no real attraction is going to be created there.

Just reach out a few days after a date and see if she’s free for another. Usually if the date was good (meaning, she also thinks so), she’ll hit you up after saying some version of “thanks.” After that just say “same, I had a good time too.” Let it rest a few days and then re-engage and ask her out again. Over complicating it and thinking you need to always be ping-ing each other is where you go wrong.

On a more general note, think about it this way: whenever there’s a friend who you really want to hang out with, are you ever “too busy” to meet? Yeah, maybe on a specific day, but you’re gonna work it out, “hey man, I’m busy then but on X day I’ll be around.”

Same thing with women. Anything but a “Yes” or “Not X day, but I’ll have time Y day” is a no. Sooner guys realize that the better.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-23T14:53:55+00:00

Become someone whose unavailability she views as he is busy doing shit she wants to do not him polishing off his meat stick

dhiesenphi · 2024-07-23T19:30:22+00:00

Don't. Just don't do it. The goal is to get their number so you can initiate a date.

ssolom · 2024-07-24T00:29:49+00:00

FaceTime is the way

No_Piano_246 · 2024-07-24T02:47:20+00:00

Don’t be a pen pal. If she’s interested she will hangout. In person is where you get her hooked.

DaygameCode · 2024-07-24T18:18:33+00:00

Stimulate her imagination, get her to fantasize, describe your fantasies you have with her with detail. Her imagination will drive her wild and obsessed with fulfilling it.

Title	How do I keep her hooked over text?
Author	kartoffelninja
Upvotes	26
Comments	18
Date	July 23, 2024 11:44 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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