Alright, gentlemen, let's dive into a scenario that might hit a bit too close to home for some of us. We're talking about what happens if you decide to be the "average ABCD Amit" in the Western sexual marketplace. Trust me, it’s a wild ride, but not the kind you want. Here we go!

Amit in College

Meet Amit, your typical obedient Indian son, majoring in pre-med because, well, that's what his parents want. He’s got his nose buried in books while his friends are out partying. But when he does hit the college parties, Amit believes women are to be treated like queens, thanks to all the Bollywood movies he’s grown up watching. Amit gets blackout drunk at these parties because he’s socially awkward and thinks that's the way to fit in. He manages a sloppy makeout session here and there, maybe even loses his virginity in a haze of alcohol and misplaced bravado. But he doesn’t get it. He catches feelings for the first girl who gives him attention. She, unsurprisingly, rejects him. Amit is left heartbroken, not understanding the social dynamics at play.

Amit at 23 Years Old

Amit’s graduated now, knee-deep in medical school debt, and still hasn't mastered the art of real-life interactions. With the heavy financial burden, he moves back home with his parents to save money. This, of course, hinders his dating life further. He's still the obedient son, living almost like he's in indentured servitude, without the freedom to create his own space or life.

So, he turns to Dil Mil to meet Indian women, appeasing his parents and sticking to what he knows. However, he can’t deny his attraction toward white women, so he tries his luck on Hinge.

His first date on Dil Mil is Priya, a nice Indian girl from a similar background. They talk about their families and shared cultural experiences. Priya ends the date with a hug and a polite “let’s keep in touch,” but nothing more. Amit thinks it went well, but she never texts back.

On Hinge, he matches with Emily, a blonde with a penchant for yoga and brunch. Emily talks about her ex who cheated on her. Amit listens and consoles her, ending the night with an awkward hug. He never makes a move because it’s “too soon.” Spoiler: there’s never a second date.

Amit from 24-28 Years Old

Somehow, Amit’s Dil Mil and Hinge matches increase. Maybe it’s his steady job or the doctor's title starting to shine through. He gets drunk on dates, which occasionally leads to a hookup.

One night, he goes out with Anjali, an Indian-American lawyer. They end up back at his place, but she leaves early in the morning, saying she has a busy schedule. The next morning, she ghosts him. Another time, he meets Sarah, a white girl with a wild streak. They have a fun, drunken night, but she never calls him back.

Amit craves a real relationship, but he’s stuck in this cycle of drunken one-night stands. The Indian girls, like Anjali, are focused on their careers and see Amit as a fleeting distraction. The non-Indian girls, like Sarah, treat their encounters with Amit as a fun fling, nothing more. Amit remains curious about dating other races but doesn’t know how to approach them, so he sticks mostly to Indian women.

Amit at 29 Years Old

Now Amit is 29 and something strange happens. Women start giving him more eye contact. He meets a woman his age, Natasha, who claims she’s “done with the scene.” Natasha is an Indian girl with a background in marketing. She’s ready to settle down, and so is he. They hit it off, but Amit ignores the red flags. She approached him at a party – something that never happened before.

Natasha makes him wait seven dates before they sleep together, and Amit, the ever-patient nice guy, is cool with it. He never asks about her past, unaware of the wild partying, drugs, and countless one-night stands.

Amit at 30 Years Old

Amit is now in a relationship, gaining weight, and letting himself go a bit because he’s “comfortable.” Natasha drags him to weddings and bachelorette parties in Vegas. Amit deletes his dating apps, thinking he’s found “the one.” His life follows the plan – but as he lets his physique and style slide, he doesn’t notice the declining interest from other women.

The Wake-Up Call

Gents, let Amit be a cautionary tale. Being average in the dating market doesn’t cut it in America. You need to work on your social skills, understand the dynamics of relationships, and, most importantly, keep improving yourself. Whether it’s hitting the gym, dressing well, or building confidence, don’t settle for mediocrity. You deserve better, and so do the women you’re trying to impress.

Remember, it’s not about changing who you are, but becoming the best version of yourself. Don’t be the average Amit – be the exceptional one who stands out.

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