Getting a fwb through cold approach?

DaygameCode · 2024-09-05T03:35:17+00:00

Cold approach requires technique, it isn’t something a noob does and gets sex immediately without knowing what he is doing.

For instance most noobs at cold approaching just have 1-2 minute interrogations and then ask for the number once they run out of questions. That’s not how cold approach is supposed to be done, and it leads to 99/100% failure rate. (By failure I mean failure to have sex. As you only get numbers that lead nowhere)

My checklists to get kiss closes and same day lays in cold approaches during the day is:

1 - Opener and setting the playful flirty tone right away. Wanna establish myself as a flirt right away to avoid the small talk and NPC vibe.

2 - Accidental physical touch to break the touch barrier organically.

3 - Switch from impersonal to personal topics of conversation where i get her to talk about herself so she can show the type of person she is and we also can build a solid connection which is what makes her want to see you again (requires 6-7 mins of personal topics/feelings/beliefs at the very least)

4 - Make sure that we are isolated to set the stage for flirting without “activating” her defences (anti-slut defence factor)

5 - Express what i find different so far about her to justify in a solid way my romantic/sexual interest in the next step. (Getting her to believe she is not just another girl for now when compared to others)

6 - Show/express sexual interest by flirting sexually to create sexual tension and avoid being friendzoned.

7 - Intentional physical touch to test the waters about whether she is ready to be kissed and reinforce the flirtation

8 - Kiss close | Nothing sexual just to reinforce that something romantic happened, and that she is experiencing a fantasy

9 - Phone close | Suggesting a date idea and if she agrees either do it immediately (instant date), or if she can’t at that moment then take her number.

10 - Consolidate after phone close by talking 2 minutes more fantasising out loud about the upcoming date with her and leave.

11 - First text | An inside joke about the encounter to remind her of the emotional mood she was in before i left.

Ideal length of the approach: 10-15 minutes

Ideal place to approach: Train trip, public parks/beach (any place where women are sitting down and aren’t in a rush)

I don’t need to specify that I’m only looking for something casual before sex has happened. If she asks what i look for l i’d just say “depends on what the woman makes me feel as we get to know each other”. But usually first, sex must happen, and then we may or may not discuss what we expect.

hunterpua · 2024-09-05T21:23:41+00:00

What I'm gonna teach you is how to minimize (but not eliminate!) skill and experience as a factor in finding an FWB.

You can do this during Daygame but its much more effective if you do this during Night Game.

The night game version would be to go to a spot that has a dance floor, and go there early, before the place really comes alive and then look out for certain women.

Look for the women who are in a group but looking outwards more often than looking at the people she is with.

It doesn't have to be in a specific direction, as long as she's looking outside her group.

Another thing to look out for is the women who start dancing first.

They might just dance in their seat a lot or dance near their group a lot or they might actually be one of the first who goes to the dancefloor.

You don't have to approach on the dancefloor, just be aware of the women who start dancing first.

From there, once you've spotted the women who look outside their group a lot and are very eager to dance, make an acknowledging gesture to all of them.

You can wave, raise your glass, nod, etc. Just make sure your gesture is noticeable within the environment.

If they give you a positive response, a smile, or a gesture of acknowledgement of their own then go approach them and open simply with "Hi"

If you see all those signs and they respond with enthusiasm to you just saying hi to them then the odds of her just wanting to fuck that night are pretty high.

I won't teach you what to do once you're talking to her already. There's tons of advice on this sub about that, like this post.

As for daygame, its similar except you probably won't spot that many women trying to dance out on the street, grocery store, mall, or park.

So just look out for women who look like they're killing time. Walking without much of a sense of purpose, sitting around just chilling, casually (as opposed to intently) looking at their phone, and also, looking around outwards.

Then its the same the process. Try to catch their eye, make a gesture to acknowledge them, if they respond positively approach and just say "Hi."

If they're walking and its difficult to catch their eye to gesture at them then your best alternative would be to approach with a more sexual, direct opener like, "Hey, I just saw you and I think your legs are so sexy. I just had to come over and meet you."

But again, your chances of succeeding are lower in Daygame environments than in more social, party environments.

Of course that's only considering how well you can filter. If we bring skill back into it then you can surely do well finding FWBs in the day if you're already quite good at Cold Approach and Seduction in general.

Janemba_Corvalis · 2024-09-05T01:01:39+00:00

Communication. Lying or misleading will lead to the perception of being a fuck boy. Shouldn’t be necessary anyway. And in person connections will always be better imo.

miyass_miyass · 2024-09-05T19:32:32+00:00

Ask her back to your place on the first date.

If she sleeps with you keep seeing her. If she brings up commitment say you don’t want anything serious.

rzerx · 2024-09-05T14:50:11+00:00

What you're doing is fuckboy shit by misleading females. I think you feel bad about yourself in manipulating girls and this is your way to vent it out so you don't feel guilty about your unethical motives

Title	Getting a fwb through cold approach?
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Date	September 5, 2024 12:51 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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