I’m pretty sure my wife is having an affair with her therapist. Our relationship has been on the rocks for last couple years- done the couples counseling thing and are discussing divorce and timeline. I’ve been taking to a therapist and I’m very OK with where things are headed, but I’ve had just had a feeling that there was something else going on.
She started seeing a new male therapist about 2 years ago and I never really thought much of it until I started digging. I recently found out that she’s been paying him out of pocket of $1500 a month. They chat via text daily - I’ve only seen some of them- she keeps all of her devices 100% lock at all times. The few I did see was about her writing NSFW material and posting it on a writing app. She has missed calls from him at 8am- when I’m taking the kids to school. I know they met up in another state when she was there on business. Either this guy is completely taking her for a ride or I could possibly have him in my kids like after the divorce. Some days it comical — others it really pisses me off.