I struggle the most with “closing out” I would call it. Usually the initial approach I am pretty confident at. I believe I can make a very good first impression, but maintaining it is difficult. Especially when I’m talking to a girl and I really like her personality, I’ll get stuck in the conversation and forget that im trying to get laid. Which then leads to too much of a “friendly vibe.” Then I waste my time and don’t get anywhere. I’ve been going hard at the gym and making good gains and have been dressing a little nicer. I usually wear a short sleeve checkered button down and grey jeans with Vans laced sneakers. I apply a tiny bit of cologne and hair gel. I’m trying to go for a “player” vibe instead of a “simp” kind of vibe. I am about 6 foot tall 185 lbs athletic build if that gives you an idea of how I look. Many of the women I approach at the bar seem initially attracted to me when I first talk to them but eventually lose interest. I am very mildly autistic so sometimes I cannot differentiate playful banter and logic. I have a very logical mind which has not served me well.