What makes you men attracted to a woman?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-10-07T05:14:04+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

WendigoBarbarian · 2024-10-07T01:21:04+00:00

if she's fit. has a nice arse. pretty face. there have been exceptions to this but those are far and few in between.

theupside2024 · 2024-10-07T01:04:53+00:00

At first it’s visual. The figure, hair all that but after meeting then it’s the smile, the flirt, the eye contact. Met me with your eyes before you ever speak. Every one I’ve met that way still lives in my mind.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-10-07T01:38:35+00:00

her looks primarily, then personality but often times men will deal with whatever problems she has just because she is pretty lol, happens a lot from what I've read.

Dwerg1 · 2024-10-07T01:57:01+00:00

There's the obvious things like taking care of themselves, it does matter that women try to appear presentable, making the best of what they have to work with of course. This goes as physical attraction and includes fitness, clothes, posture, make-up and all that first meets the eye.

As far as I'm concerned the looks only gets the foot in the door, what happens once the woman opens her mouth determines whether the door will open up or shut in her face.

Kindness is a BIG deal. If she's genuinely positive, feels good and shares that vibe with everyone around her I'll lock onto that immediately. It must be authentic, coming from the core of who she is and what she believes in. So in terms of personality this is highly sought after.

I'd want a woman who is uplifting, supportive, cooperative, honest and can communicate effectively.

CriminalLee_Insane · 2024-10-07T01:22:51+00:00

Personally is everything.. you can be the finest woman in life but if you act like a mean stuck up bitch for no reason then thats a turn off.

However, if you’re a descent looking woman yet you’re cool, down to earth, chill and sweet as candy then that makes you 10 times attractive in my eyes ..

Yoramus · 2024-10-07T02:07:56+00:00

Honestly the first thing is visual and it can be very strong. It is not necessarily sexual but the things that attract men are different from those that women like to obsess about (like the nail color).

Then it becomes much more complex and it varies widely between individuals but love requires some synchronicity in personality, interests and so on.

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-10-07T03:18:48+00:00

Physically Attractive - Around 15% to 25% body fat

Does a physical activity

Keeps herself and her spaces clean (Room, Home, Car, etc...)

Manages money well (#1 reason for divorce is finances)

Business minded

Her femininity

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-10-07T04:09:09+00:00

I am a bit older and my attraction has changed over the years. I used to be only attracted to the women’s beauty but now it is the combination of her beauty and how she reacts to me.

Disastrous-Stuff-268 · 2024-10-07T04:25:31+00:00

Big titties

bannedcanceled · 2024-10-07T02:11:51+00:00

tabooforme · 2024-10-07T02:18:39+00:00

Personable, fit, great smile (smiles with her eyes) dimples I get weak knees when she smiles and has dimples

ararai · 2024-10-07T03:38:40+00:00

Looks to get my attention, attitude to get my interest, personality to keep me going.

berzerker5000 · 2024-10-07T03:45:43+00:00

Sweet #1. Nobody likes a conceited stuck up ass bitch.

Then beautiful, unique eyes, sass, smarts, caring, nurturing, loyal, traditional values. All that is sexy af.

sturdySteady · 2024-10-07T03:52:56+00:00

Various reasons , women are just beautiful humans.

theravenheadedone · 2024-10-07T04:04:35+00:00

Besides the obvious stuff already mentioned, I am drawn in in by feminine radiance and receptivity. This might present as intelligence, playfulness and warmth.

cjunc2013 · 2024-10-07T04:10:20+00:00

Stupidity apparently… cuz they all trend towards more similar in ugly ways than not.

zpiton · 2024-10-07T00:44:47+00:00

I love the look of a woman, it defines a lot of things... 🔥🔥🔥😘

devonthed00d · 2024-10-07T02:12:57+00:00

First it’s looks that’s what pulls us in, then if you want to be kept around it’s mostly if you have a cool personality and brain cells floating around in your head.

You don’t have to have Albert Einstein’s IQ level, but be able to hold a conversation about ideas & stuff. I don’t want to listen to your beef between you and Brittany all the time.

Sometimes I want to talk about weird stuff, like aliens or your favorite conspiracy theory. What’s outside the simulation, etc.

Title	What makes you men attracted to a woman?
Author	Sea-Yam-3502
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	October 7, 2024 12:36 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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