Hooking up with random girls doesn't feel the same anymore.

BigFatBlackCat · 2024-10-14T05:56:51+00:00

Wanting to truly connect to another human being is a drive built into our DNA.

Can you handle it though? Can you be with a woman and see her as a human being worthy of respect at all times and your partner with which to build a life with?

oldcousingreg · 2024-10-14T01:16:10+00:00

That is absolutely a normal and reasonable feeling that a lot of people have. It’s not the same for everyone but there’s nothing wrong at 25.

saito200 · 2024-10-14T08:31:20+00:00

Our culture heavily overrates casual random sex to an obnoxious degree

As anything else in life, without meaning and depth, without a motivation behind pure shallow hedonism, we soon fall into a deep sense of emptiness that begs to be healed

That is why you feel like this

It happens when you spend your time and energy in pointless endeavours that do not build up to anything that makes you look at your life and feel fulfilled

grahamcookiefart · 2024-10-14T08:05:33+00:00

I really believe in this day and age, the actual indicator of "SMV" is whether you can get a decent human being to be loyal to you and love you, care for you. Having hookups is facilitated with apps etc, you have more access than ever before to sex. I don't understand why it's sold to men as an indicator of value - you can literally bring nothing to the table and find someone to sleep with (depends how low you're willing to set your standard). What you won't find easily, and have to work for, is a respectable person to lovingly devote themselves to you.

xvszero · 2024-10-14T01:12:05+00:00

Yes this happens. Haven't you see The Wedding Singer?!

You have to decide what you actually want out of life then go for it.

Environmental_Toe488 · 2024-10-14T09:16:37+00:00

Yea definitely going through this now. I’ve been through a string of hook ups and it’s just meh. I’ve also had long term relationships lasting 1-4 years at a time and I’ve got the gist of it. Now I’m not really seeking anything. It’s nice just chilling sometimes. Maybe I’ll want something later who knows

Anasnoelle · 2024-10-25T18:49:54+00:00

Definitely have my thoughts on hook up culture. It’s okay to get older and want more serious relationships. It’s a part of growing up.

Specialist-Mix1234 · 2024-11-04T22:18:28+00:00

well I'm someone who has never wanted casual sex and always saw the value of a committed relationship. Why did it take you using people's bodies for your own pleasure for you to realize that meaningless sex feels like shit because it is in fact meaningless? Now your next partner will have to be exposed to all the toxic habits you may have developed being a promiscuous player.

nameofplumb · 2024-11-17T16:22:01+00:00

When you get a gf, remember that she has feelings and insecurities and you two are meant to support each other. Be kind to her. Be giving. You might need some education on the subject. Do some research.

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PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2024-10-14T02:35:07+00:00

Sounds like a first world problem since most men don’t have the luxury of having a string of meaningless sex with several different women. I hope you find the LTR are looking for.

Fluffy-Comedian-3245 · 2024-10-14T03:52:35+00:00

Don’t get soft. Get therapy.

Title	Hooking up with random girls doesn't feel the same anymore.
Author	NoUnderstanding514
Upvotes	7
Comments	17
Date	October 14, 2024 12:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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