Hooking up with a woman at work?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-22T18:56:20+00:00

With the first one, I managed to keep it a secret. That gave me confidence so I tried again with someone else a few months later. With the second, I didn't manage to keep it a secret and I got fired. I was, however, okay with that. I knew the risks and I took that risk.

You always take a risk when you do this stuff. If the job is important to you - don't do it.

berzerker5000 · 2024-10-22T23:10:01+00:00

I haven’t but a buddy of mine is hooking up with a chick at work and fucks her in the office after people go home. Her husband also works at same company in a different department. He knows about the affair and stalks my friend around as he drives around town, beats up the wife at home and threatens to kill her, and shows up at bars he finds out they are at and my buddy slips out the back. Sounds like a hoot!

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-10-22T22:30:13+00:00

Gotta decide if you want the girl more than the job, because you probably can't hang on to both

Recktion · 2024-10-23T02:37:44+00:00

First was fine, everyone knew, people didn't care, left couple of weeks after it ended. 2nd was great, no one knew. 3rd was ok, she got feelings attached. 4th was was pretty bad and the girl quit because of me.

Never got in trouble, never got fired.

Theverybest92 · 2024-10-23T05:13:10+00:00

Got fired just for pursuing. Don't do it.

I_hate_being_interru · 2024-10-23T01:53:03+00:00

That’s playing with fire. Mixing work and personal life together is…it’s a mess. If something happens, one person is gonna have to leave the company. Because if both parties stay, the chances of a passive aggressive war breaking out are high.

RichtheLionheart · 2024-10-23T06:33:49+00:00

Not worth it, unless you value temporary satisfaction over your career. Also kinda depends on what sort of job you have. If it’s lower level work, I suppose the consequences are less.

Sex and work is just a line I’ve never crossed and don’t plan to.

htownaliens · 2024-10-22T23:38:38+00:00

Went great and was a lot of fun. Didn’t have problem keeping it a secret, like nobody would have ever guessed. It didn’t end well but she dosent work there anymore so it’s not a problem.

puma085 · 2024-10-23T07:14:51+00:00

Never done it. Back home in Austria I just work with women that are much older then me. I am in my 30s already and with much older I mean 50 or even 60 plus. Here in the states where I am doing a work related further education programm until next year the situation is different. There would be some potential targets but in America it seems a rad flag to get involved with some people you work with. I respect that and as they say when in America do do what the Americans do. So I have never though about it seriously. despite the fact that I might have chance with one gal there. One girl suggested that we should hang out at some point before I am going back to Austria in late january 2025.

tabure67 · 2024-10-23T07:35:16+00:00

I'm not from the US so getting fired for hooking up is not possible.

I work in the corporate environment, so here are my situations:

28 single mom - She was totally wild, very sexual, tried to force a kiss with me. I didn't want to be with her because who needs a single mom.

28 girl - She gaved me her number and I did ask her for number. We went on a date, spent 8h together on the first date, offered me a coffee at her place, but I didn't want a relationship with her because she was openly materialistic.

25 shy girl - She was obviously flirting with me over Microsoft teams, only once in person because we are in corporate environment with other people, but she flaked when I asked her out after working hours. This happened 3 weeks ago. I tried my best to ignore her because there's no reason waist my time on her.

Any advice for the last girl is welcomed, but walking around away shows that I'm not desperate.

cyrusm_az · 2024-10-23T06:30:02+00:00

Funny how women don’t get fired for this stuff. Bad idea overall

ThotBubble · 2024-10-22T23:56:27+00:00

Not worth it unless you know what you’re doing if you’re asking on the internet don’t

TestifyMediopoly · 2024-10-23T00:10:53+00:00

is expected.

Commercial-Log-5195 · 2024-10-23T09:09:40+00:00

You said she’s shy maybe it was too rushed. Just talk to her normally and get comfortable with each other. Don’t bring up her ghosting you. Don’t put in more energy if she’s not reciprocating it. You already made it known you want to hangout with her so it’s up to her whether she wants you or not. If she wants you she will make it easy for you. The thing about work is you will constantly see this women a lot so you can just let it marinate.

Title	Hooking up with a woman at work?
Author	Accomplished-Lab5914
Upvotes	18
Comments	37
Date	October 22, 2024 6:52 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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