“Woman were the perpetrators of one sided Domestic Violence 70% of the time in heterosexual relationships.” Study.

walterwallcarpet · 2024-10-18T11:05:25+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Acrobatic_Sport_7664 · 2024-10-18T10:45:58+00:00

We need more recent data and studies. I doubt anything has changed for the better, but, the lack of newer data allows feminists more than a little wiggle room.

Punder_man · 2024-10-18T13:46:39+00:00

This is not from a Men's Rights post, but apparently, it was suggested that many women perpetrate DV as a result of knowing that they are not legally liable once the man responds. A conspiracies of sorts.

Here is what said person suggested:

"Let's say that the woman hits first. That is DV, but when the man returns the hit, the first instance of DV is overwritten and the man becomes the perpetrator.

Strangely enough, the legal system (and society) is more likely to believe a woman if she says that she was hit by a man than the vice versa of this scenario. Even if the man claims it as a response to her hitting him, the fact that he hit her will likely take priority.

Another issue is that, a woman's claim is believed by simple claim in most cases. In high profile cases, there may be a bit of proof required, but said proof is easily fabricated. Meanwhile, the only reason a can is likely to be believed is if the entire event was recorded to show that she attacked first. Otherwise, the woman's words will be trusted over the man's because women are "apparently" more trustworthy than men."

I want to know your opinions on this. Is there validity to this claim?

Ugly1998 · 2024-10-18T17:11:39+00:00

I'm not going to deny violent men exist but it's weird how society only views men as violent but domestic violence is reported higher in F/F relationships and lower in M/M relationships.

Shouldn't the stats show that gay men have the highest reports of DV because more men are involved? To me is just shows that DV is more likely to happen when more women are involved which doesn't exactly follow the brainrot mentality that "women good men bad"

Mavgrim · 2024-10-18T17:13:07+00:00

Apparently, while teaching boys not to hit girls, they forgot to teach girls not to hit boys.

DO-Kagome · 2024-10-18T17:27:22+00:00

"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way."

Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️

walterwallcarpet · 2024-10-18T11:26:25+00:00

DV is actually a female speciality, and a form of mate-guarding. https://stevemoxon.co.uk/how-and-why-partner-violence-is-normal-female-behaviour-but-aberrational-male-behaviour/

Consistent-Career888 · 2024-10-18T17:07:10+00:00

The term for this abusive dynamic has a unfortunate name.

Reactive Abuse.

You are pushed to the point of eventually reacting.

If she uses physical violence such as throwing objects. , using a a weapon, physically assaulting you . Men know that regardless of who is the actual aggressor, who deliberately used emotional and psychological abuse to force compliance. Women are rarely held accountable.

They know they can do whatever they want and when a man becomes frustrated and hurt He is not free to express anything.

Men who set healthy boundaries are now controlling , insecure and jealous abusers.

Men know if they dare defend themselves or stand up for themselves. Armed men from the government will come to put them in jail. Based on her words. No facts or probable cause required.

Attorneys are aware that there are medical records available that show the man actually has been the victim of a woman’s abuse.

A woman can have no medical evidence of any abuse physical , emotional or psychological yet be able to claim abuse .

Many people who workin EDs see this every day .

Would you want to testify in court that there was not so much a scratch on her . Yet he has been hit , stabbed, assaulted and emotionally, psychologically abused?

That has become career destroying

ralphswanson · 2024-10-18T15:53:44+00:00

This is one of the great lies of feminism. It shows feminism to be a hate movement and not a movement for equality.

PhDs in 'Gender Studies' set up government domestic violence and write laws based on this lie. They help nobody. See the 'Duluth Model'.

If we really want to help domestic violence victims then we must start with the truth. Not feminist hate speech.

DO-Kagome · 2024-10-18T17:24:29+00:00

"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way."

Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️

DO-Kagome · 2024-10-18T17:27:22+00:00

"Actually, women aren’t even commenting. It’s just men that are commenting. In a positive way."

Sounds about right. They tend to disappear when we show, with evidence, the problems men face. Just like in reality, many women struggle with accountability. We need to support our brothers through this and stand together ✊️

Odd_Simple_5931 · 2024-10-18T20:59:06+00:00

Yet they Run And Play Victim and Never Take An Ounce Of Accountability

TechnicianLegal1120 · 2024-10-19T12:30:54+00:00

I bet women were perpetrators of violence 100% of the time in lesbian relationships!

GodHand7 · 2024-10-19T02:33:39+00:00

My ex had once "accidentaly" kicked me in the head while were sitting in bed

eternal_kvitka1817 · 2024-10-18T17:20:29+00:00

I'm not surprised at all looking at some cis women's behaviour. They even don't see there is something wrong if a woman hits a man.

SnooHabits7185 · 2024-10-18T15:10:27+00:00

Everyone except feminists know this to be true. Problem is, they've developed a massive lobby which is backed by powerful media, politicians, and mostly corrupt judges. It's now spread all over the west.

RemindMeBot · 2024-10-18T16:44:01+00:00

Remindme! 2 months

mhk23 · 2024-10-18T13:46:28+00:00

Provides insight:

https://www.youtube.com/live/nytyFAJfPz0?feature=shared

sniper1905 · 2024-11-12T13:36:54+00:00

Remindme! 3 months

Careless_Client7373 · 2025-02-14T04:22:02+00:00

I am actually doing my final psyc paper on IPV. The amount of research involving male victims and those who identify as other genders, is really lacking. I have read many interesting articles that have looked at the assumption of men being perpetrators just because they are men and the lack of understanding and resources for men. I think as we start to study other angles of IPV, we will see an increase in acceptance of the fact that anyone can be a victim and that men have specific needs that are not being met. But you also have to understand how long it has taken for domestic violence to be recognized at all. It was still legal to abuse your wife when my mother was young. It would be nice if no one abused anyone and if people understood that even behaviors that seem "not that bad" can have very negative effects on the people around you. If people could understand how harmful words can be to someone's mental state and if people could know how negatively and indelibly those behaviors effect children. In full disclosure, I am a woman and a DV survivor. When I first began studying this topic it was very offensive to me that people would say that women can be just as, if not more, abusive than men, that men have needs too, etc. I was very jaded. I'm guessing you will run into women like I used to be. Good luck spreading your message. I hope it finds unbiased and supportive ears.

Fefannyo · 2024-10-18T19:41:19+00:00

The keyword here is not "women", it's "heterosexual relationships". Just stop being str*ight lmao

South-Steak-7810 · 2024-10-18T11:46:46+00:00

[permanently deleted]

Title	“Woman were the perpetrators of one sided Domestic Violence 70% of the time in heterosexual relationships.” Study.
Author	South-Steak-7810
Upvotes	651
Comments	62
Date	October 18, 2024 10:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1g6exot/woman_were_the_perpetrators_of_one_sided_domestic/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/woman-were-the-perpetrators-of-one-sided-domestic.1533830 https://theredarchive.com/post/1533830

Comments