I am a military guy, and I move frequently. I am at my current duty station for only 6 more months, so anything but hookups and ENM is pretty much not available (I don't mind a hook up, but I'd rather have something more).

I thought I found someone five months ago that seemed like the whole package- attractive, kinky, liked doing homemaker stuff, but was independent and made her own money. She had two kids, but only one in the house who was a junior in HS. And she was a great care-taker for kids!

We were already making plans for her to move with me to my next duty station (lucky for me it is where my kids are)- she would come once her kid graduated HS. I would fly up one month, she down the next ect...

But she had been cheated on in her prior marriage, and had some serious trust issues. She was convinced that I was going to get back with my ex within that year (ew). So it seems she was low-key waiting for an opportunity to dump me.

Another guy came along who was staying in the area (fatter, balder, uglier). But he wont be moving. So he wins. I get dumped unceremoniously.

Now I am at this duty station for the next six months, probably alone. She probably did me a favor in the end and I will be ok, but fuck man this sucks.