I think those of us who have met and come across those one-in-a-million personalities, a person so magnetic and charismatic that it inspires you to emulate it or improve yourself, a person that shows you what is possible because how high can we know the bar is if we do never see it for ourselves?

My inspiration was this guy I knew from my class at high school. He wasn’t the tallest, or the most intelligent, or even the most good looking, but had so much charisma, always smiling, entertaining himself, didn’t care what people thought. The year he joined my school that I had been in for a while, he became the most popular and liked guy in the school within only a few months. It was crazy to see how everyone knew his name, even those 5 years older than us.

I went to a house party that he was also at, and witnessed the guy sitting around a large round table basically entertaining 4 girls at once who looked like they were entranced.

I don’t know where he is now, last time I heard he was working on a boat as a deckhand. Doesn’t have social media anymore and nobody in my circle knows where he is or how he’s doing. But every time I’m in a situation with a girl and I don’t know what to do, I think of him and imagine what he would do.

If you have one, share your story about who inspired you to work on yourself, and showed you what’s possible when it comes to charisma and seduction!