So my first date with this woman went really well in my opinion, but as I posted in another post that the 2nd date was basically just me talking about myself the whole time, even though I'm sure she wanted to open up.

I waited a few days and haven't heard from her, not sure if she's not interested or just shy/thinks im not into her. I'm going to just shoot my shot and ask her on a 3rd date, but wondering if I should mention the 2nd date at all? I really was feeling off mentally and that's why it didn't go as well as it should have, but not sure how to explain it or if I even should/ if it would matter.

To add, regarding this experience, would it be better to go out and meet up on the 3rd date or invite her over for dinner?