Married 11 years. 2 kids in common. Also her 15f living with us.

She abandoned me and all 3 kids 3-ish weeks ago. Completely went off the radar, claiming to be at work…..of course she couldn’t take calls or texts while at work, or while driving to or from work. So, couldn’t be reached for 3 weeks.

Finally came back and dropped the lines.

“I’m not in love with you anymore”. “I go to work to get away from you, because I don’t like you”. “There is no fixing this”.

She then said she wanted marriage counseling. But I knew it was to buy her time. To allow her to stay in the home, forcing me to pay all the bills. Forcing me to pay the cellphone she uses to cheat. Forcing me to make payments on the car she uses to cheat. Making me pay the auto insurance. Everything.

Today was the straw that broke the camels back. She picked up her 12m son from his dads to “come over and visit” then left to “go to work”. Leaving me with an extra kid.

See, this whole time, I’ve been single parenting. Working 100 hours a week. Plus cleaning. Laundry. Cooking. Being a dad. Even to her 15f that I’m not the father of.

I’ve communicated how difficult is it is. She clearly doesn’t care. She picked up her son, then left. Just adding another kid for me to feed, clean up after, and deal with constant fights and arguments from.

And he didn’t fail. I’m 20 minutes he managed to let the dog run loose in the neighborhood, jam the garage door halfway open and crack my 8 years old nail.

This shit show doesn’t stop. I’m at my wits end. So I filed.