So, I posted this last week. I stalled with this girl for months. We flerted, touched, she constantly approached me, we just "clicked".

Long story short, I gathered the courage to ask her out, but I asked her if she had a boyfriend first. She said yes. I said shame and went my way.My world crumbled, yada yada yada.

Yesterday she ignores me. Today she got out of her way just to see me and say Hello. It is like cat and mouse.

Dude, I am not missreadiing those signals. I am a retard and know less about women than...anyone on planet. But I am not missreading the signals.

Maybe she wants attention. Maybe she is willing to play me more. Maybe I am prolonging my suffering. Maybe it is not moral, maybe I wanna marry her and have kids and get divorced. Fuck it.

I have two plans

1) I will wait for the right moment, till we talk normal without any tension, with right atmosphere and mood, or fuck it I will just ask her like this:

"Hey, we really should get coffe sometime"

If she rejects me, It is what it is. That is definitive.

My goal is to get her number, and start texting with her. Unfortunatley I have no social media so I must go this way.

Eventually I will get that coffie and there I will make my move. But how, that is a question for you guys.

I need details and I need them now, do I touch her, do I talk about my feelings....do I hug her, do I try to steal a kiss or just kiss her on cheeks.

2) second plan is to wait, just to chat with her, to make her my friend. It still requires a number, and maybe

"We can be friends" deception.

In time, I text her. I hold my contact with her eyes all the time. I touch her lightly but still to leave a atmosphere of desire. To let her subtly know I am into her.

Tell me your thoughts. I want her. I am sorry for the other guy but I hate being that aswell.