I (M21) met a woman who attends my college off of Hinge a few days ago. When I suggested to meet up, I originally suggested going to the movies (it’s something I’ve had success with before + i find coffee boring), but she strongly insisted I meet her at one of the college bars. I have two questions to this:

  1. Does she just want me to meet her at the bar to buy her drinks? From texts, she seems genuinely interested in our conversations, but that could just be totally misleading.

  2. How do I flirt in a bar setting? My freshman year, when I had zero game at all, I would just have random women approach while dancing with hardly any words and we would just get to it. Since this was something scheduled, I feel like it’s a bit different. Bars differ, but I am not the biggest fan of the college bar setting specifically. It’s usually very loud and crowded with people who are very showoff-ish, so we’ll barely be able to hold a conversation, and her friend group will probably be there too.

How should I go about this?