Is it rude to approach a girl while she’s eating?

SuperCat2023 · 2025-03-03T03:27:41+00:00

When someone comes talk to me while I'm eating alone outisde I always get annoyed. Of course everyone is different but I wouldn't try it because I know I hate it

Janemba_Corvalis · 2025-03-03T02:41:42+00:00

Not really, but don’t approach someone with a mouth full of food

TheGame81677 · 2025-03-03T07:18:40+00:00

I think it’s rude to approach anyone while they’re eating.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-03T03:09:03+00:00

No. You need to get past this idea that it’s rude to talk to people. You need to have the mindset that you are handing them a million dollar check if they choose to take it. You are the prize, not her shitty meal.

tsireya_metkayina · 2025-03-03T02:38:42+00:00

Personally I think it depends on what she’s eating. If it’s MacDonalds or a packed lunch in a casual setting then go for it. But if it’s a sit down restaurant or cafe be a little more discerning :)

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-03T05:40:06+00:00

If it’s done right and genuine it’s ok. But don’t try to stick around forever.

I would do “hey sorry I see your eating but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi”. Keep then convo short after that. Try to get the number then leave.

If she wasn’t eating it’s diff but in this case I’d say better to keep it short

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-03T06:13:03+00:00

As long as you are situationally aware and can calibrate the inappropriateness into the approach, that should be fine. See my post on calibration. Few examples:

If shes walking alone at night, hi {I'm not a theif}...... opener <- calibration

If shes walking in the mall. hi {i'm not here to sell you anything}.... opener <- calibration

If shes eating, hi {sorry but I know you're eating}.... opener <- calibration

epimpstyle · 2025-03-03T13:28:37+00:00

This is about calibration.

It is one thing to see that she is hungry and another to see that she is eating but scrolling through her phone. Like in this VIDEO where I approached two girls from behind while they were drinking, I saw that they were not interested in finishing the drink and in this case it was perfect to start a conversation (though it's hard to make a joke when they don't know basic English).

Title	Is it rude to approach a girl while she’s eating?
Author	Perfect-Highway-6818
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Date	March 3, 2025 2:33 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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