What are the steps

regertsrus · 2025-05-04T15:21:57+00:00

Why would the kids choose her?
Why would you think you cant find trust and love again? You can always make more money. You have the opportunity to not only help yourself but also other people who are more deserving than thos who might ditch you. Look beyond yourself and you will find a world of opportunity out there to be productive and make a difference. When you start believing this is a fresh start and you can go from zero to hero all on your own, you might start to see this as an opportunity

upvotersfortruth · 2025-04-30T05:05:29+00:00

Kids are college grads and I fear their reactions and I will loose them because they will side with mom.

More often than not, kids that age are like, “Finally! Why did you wait?”

Helpful-Paramedic463 · 2025-04-30T01:45:57+00:00

Like the others have said, pay for a consultation with a family law attorney.

Before you go, you need to have a complete understanding of your assets, debts, to include her pay if she works.

Your kids are in college so no child support. That's a win.

You do not need to leave the house. If she's wanting to divorce, let her ads move out.

If neither of you can afford it, sell it.

Your kids are adults and they'll figure it out.

HowManyBobs · 2025-04-30T00:03:56+00:00

Lawyer! Prepare yourself to adapt. You'll realize your true friends - and probably make some new ones. Get familiar and comfortable with your finances. Go to the gym - lift weights. You will suffer. And you will make it.
You will make it!!!

Eric_C_Productions · 2025-04-29T23:45:10+00:00

Get a lawyer and get your assets straightened up. Your kids are adults now. They should already know what kind of person you and your wife are. If you are open and honest with them, then why should that be an issue? Don't play those games where you are asking them to choose sides. Start writing down what you want and what you are willing to give up. Remember, it is all clutter at this point. What is important for you to keep and are willing to move with you? If you and your wife are both partners in this business, look into buying her out. If you have parents or friends, maybe look to move in with them. Either way, you are going to be spending money. Look at this situation as you would approaching your business. Clean and methodical.Its overwhelming right now, but in the end, you will come through. Good luck to you..

Maseworld · 2025-04-29T23:11:39+00:00

1st step: consult a lawyer. Get all your options laid out and pick the best course of action.

Title	What are the steps
Author	6StringFiend
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	April 29, 2025 10:42 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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